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I keep thinking about abortion due to my cheating with this other man while married to my husband.

Earlier this year, I made the biggest mistake of committing adultary. I was married at the time to my husband and had been married to him for over a year. I told him what I had done and asked for forgiveness from him and from Allah (swt) and my husband had forgiven me and has accepted all of this. My feelings are very confused for this baby as I wanted a baby with my husband and wanted to settle down, I know this baby is my husband’s 98%. When I was intimate with this other man we used protection, thus too makes it impossible for him to be the biological father of the child.

We both are married but we still love each other and been intimate together. Please help

Until one day, I decided to marry the girl I just met, thinking that the other one is so far from me and long distance relationship most of the time don’t work. Then she couldn’t believe that I got married; she cried I caused her pain which she carried out for years. Even if she really loves me, she doesn’t like to be my second wife. And sometimes she have the guts to ask for a divorce. Until one day, I received a divorce agreement from her family, asking me to sign the papers. Yesterday, she got married and I told her, just pretend that you have your monthly period to avoid having intercourse and tell him that ramadan is also coming. The main purpose is to avoid confusion later on if who’s the father (if she will able to conceive).

My father cheats on my mother and he is addicted to pornography as well

My father has been unfaithful to my mother for a number of times. Every time he did it, he always asked for forgiveness and promised to never do it again. My brother made me promise not to disclose this to our mother as he was worried that our family would fall apart.

I suspect my husband is cheating on me, I love him, what should I do?

I’m 24 and it’s been 1 and a half year of my marriage. I have 2 months old daughter. I think that my husband is cheating on me. A few months ago during my pregnancy I have been having dreams that he is cheating on me..

Dua for a cheating spouse

please what special Du ‘aah can be said for a cheating spouse..

Husband is searching the internet for escort girls. What should I do?

I found out that my husband is searching on the Internet for escort girls. I found out by mistake that he is entering a lot of escort site in the same day and than he entered a hotel reservation what should I do. I don’t know if he cheating on me he always goes out in the night. I need your help kindly advise what should I do..

My husband is acting suspiciously, I think he is having an affair

I have held this anger in for too long now and feel I did not deserve this. We live in usa and have been married for 15 years but after many years Allah has finally blessed us with a beautiful boy but my husband is very distant and was not there through out my birth I attended all my hospital checkups alone. At the end of my pregnancy I was so stressed that he was never at home never rung was not the husband I married many years ago..

I think my father is cheating on my mother

I was going through my father’s texts the other day to find something for him, but then I stumbled upon a couple of texts which I’m pretty sure is from another woman, saying something that doesn’t feel right to say to a married man. But he is quite religious now,…

Husband has admitted committing zina with ex-wife

My husband married a woman from his native country 7 years ago. He divorced her 6 years ago with 3 talaaq. But never told her of his decision he only said the words in my presence. He also since that time has said he divorces her on many occasions since then a total in excess of 7 times. Every year he has gone back to his native country to visit his son who he had with her before his divorce..

He had an affair because I was mean

My husband had an affair with his cousin, someone he loved for 5 years before our marriage, her parents refused to get him married to her so he looked for other proposals and got married to me. He didnt like me from the very beginning our marriage was only based on istikhaara..