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Half a Virgin

He was my first boyfriend, and at this stage I was very naive, foolish, unknowledgable about the whole dating process, and was somewhat heavily influenced by his lifestyle. Due to my naivety, I am scarred by certain things he made me do, which i realised later are considered to be major sins in Islam. After research, I can say with deep repentance that I am half a virgin.

My fiancé is using nude photos to blackmail me

I made a mistake and committed zinaa with my fiance, and at the time we took a few nude photos together. Now I have stopped and repented, but he is using the photos to blackmail me to marry him right away, against my family’s wishes.

Want to marry but fiance wants to commit zina first

The problem is he wants to commit zina with me before we are married. He says he wants to be close to me and that if we spend time together before we are married again, it will happen anyway. We cannot do our nikah quickly (ie. within a month) as there are various issues between our families that need to be resolved.

A Muslim teenager: lost, depressed, lonely homosexual

I was a good child, I sought Allah, I prayed 5 times a day as a child and even as a teenager. I stayed up long nights reading Quran , making Dikr.. I am not a faithless or unaware person. I know I need to change, I am very lost and confused and find myself doing bad things, talking to bad people.

Boyfriend demands abortion

I confirmed my pregnancy and i’m 8weeks pregnant and he has demanded that i abort it. I would have if he hadn’t started teaching me Islam. I am now scared as i read that it’s a sin if the foetus is not a risk to my life and i abort it.

Unfaithful man + greedy family = disaster!

Last year my mother told me that she caught my father cheating on her. My father admitted and asked for forgiveness. He swore on his Mother (Allah bless her soul), his children and the Holy Quran that he wouldn’t cheat again. But I couldn’t believe my ears when my Mother told me few days ago that he is cheating again. Now this “other woman” says that she is only after my father for money.

Feel so betrayed about his past relationship

I am with a guy that has revealed to me that he has an ex who has had his child. He claims to not want nothing to do with this ex or this child as he was not given a choice as to whether he wanted this baby, and she is not muslim. I am meant to marry this guy and its eating me up inside knowing that somewhere out there is a child that is his.

Cheating husband after 32 years

I’ve been married for 32 years and recently found my husband cheating. He has admitted this openly and I left the house to stay with my sibling. Since then, he has brought this woman to our house and has engaged in zina consistently. Recently, he sent me a message telling me he bought me for $$ (mahr) and I need to come back home.

I am married but committed adultery with my Christian ex-boyfriend who wants to accept Islam and marry me

I am a married Muslim women married to a Muslim man for 7 yrs we have 3 children. My marriage has not been very good for about 4 yrs now but continue to stay in it due to my children. Prior to my marriage to my husband i lost my virginity to a christian man at a younger age, he moved and we lost contact. I have since found this man via the Internet and we have been talking for the past year, we have since committed adultery and i feel horrible about the sin i have committed.

what do i do with my baby?

I made a mistake in committing zinna, i am not married and i have recently had the baby and have handed it to social services. he is now in foster care and i do not know what do, whether to give it up for adoption or not. me and the baby’s dad are fine, and would like to get married and keep this baby, and if i give my baby up, this will haunt me for the rest of my life, he is the only good thing i have.