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Spirtual solution to have righteous children

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salam,

I need to know if there is a spiritual solution to have pious children. I have been married for 3 years but couldn't conceive.

Fiza56

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  1. Sister I do not think there is a dua to conceive however,
    try going to a raqi to read some ruqya on you because
    I know that sometimes people do sihr to the couple so
    that they never conceive, this is done as a jinn will sit
    in the womans womb and stomps on any fertilized egg,
    now im not saying someone did sihr on you but consider
    my thoughts as they are only good for you.

    Also sometimes its a test of life, my mothers friend conceived
    after 10 years of trying and alhamdulilah you know she thought
    she was sterile.
    Sometimes its due to stress, your body is overworking and you
    need to relax, so your hormones are great.
    sometimes its because of lack of right nutrition your body is
    lacking something,eat foods that are rich in vitamins e.g
    fruits and vegetables.

    Sister put your trust in allah and ask allah.
    Ameen you will be blessed.

  2. its so sad to hear your situation bcz everry couple dreams of having children
    especially the mothers..actually i dont know if there's any spiritual acts to comceive.
    but yes i do know if u spend some property to poor people or masjid or madrasa
    or any honest charity for the same of Allah and ask Him the Almighty to grant you a
    child then may be by the the grace of Allah u can conceive.but this is not a guaranteed
    suggestion.its depends on how strong your Imaan is, how desperately u ask for a child..
    besides that always pray to Allah and ask Him a child.You should also contact a famous
    doctor bcz Allah always gives us something through a medium although he can do
    otherwise..
    there's one thing i must tell u,i guess..if the problem is with your husband such as his
    sperm count is low or something like that then i advise u to give a pause to your routine
    sex life i mean make sure yourr husband does not ejaculate for a consecutive six weeks or
    so rather than making a mistake that most of the couple do that is they have sex so
    frequently that the husband gets weaker.then on your most proper timing of ovaluating, with the
    name of Allah and very according to islam have sexual intercourse and insha''Allah
    you will conceive regardless what Allah has stored for you.try to make it as islamic as possible..
    it would be the best if u follow our prophet's advice on how,when to have sex to conceive..
    may Allah grant your wish..

  3. Assalamu'alaikum sister,

    May Allah Give you a pious child very soon.

    I heard about this lady who conceived after over 20 years of marriage. Do not lose hope, pray to Allah for it and in sha Allah, you will have a child soon. Have yourself and your husband tested for problems. If you know it, it will be easier to find a solution.

    Sister, drink Zam Zam water with the Niyyah to conceive, because of this hadith of Allah's Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam:

    It was narrated that Jâbir bin `Abdullâh said: ``I heard the Messenger of Allâh say: `The water of Zamzam is for whatever it is drunk for.' ’’ ( Hasan - Ibn Majah )

    Also recite the following du'as from the Qur'aan:

    ﺭَﺏِّ ﻫَﺐﻟﻰ ﻣِﻦﻟَﺪُﻧﻚَ ﺫُﺭِّﻳَّﺔًﻃَﻴِّﺒَﺔً ۖ ﺇِﻧَّﻚَﺳَﻤﻴﻊُﺍﻟﺪُّﻋﺎﺀ
    ( "My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring. Indeed, You are the Hearer of supplication." - (This is the dua of Zakariyya Alaihis Salam))

    (رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِنَ الصَّالِحِينَ)
    My Lord, grant me [a child] from among the righteous." (Dua of Ibraheem Alaihis Salam)

    Abu Abdul Bari
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  4. Salaams,

    Being able to conceive and having a pious child are two different things. Naturally, if you are having trouble getting pregnant the first thing you should do is go to the doctor to find the cause. There are many halal treatments for infertility these days, and your overall health will benefit from that as well.

    If you do manage to get pregnant in shaa Allah, please keep in mind that the child is his/her own person. As parents we all do our best to instill the deen in them and hope that they will serve Allah with sincerity and dedication, but in the end we need to leave the outcomes to Him because we cannot control what becomes of our children ultimately.

    -Amy
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  5. Assalamu alaikum varahmathullahi va barakaathahu

    I have been married for 2 years but couldn't conceive. Any doa for getting conceive? I do Niyyah and gave sedakah. I never lose my hope. I believe Allah SWT. Problem was when I meet my friends or relatives it's very difficult to face. Every time ask me the same question. So I feel very depressed. If anyone know doa pls help me and make doa for me.

    • Sis u can read dua of zakaria
      Rabbi la tazharni far dauwa anteh khairul waritheen

    • It's extremely rude of people to ask someone about their marriage and fertility - both are completely private businesses. Either tell your family to stop asking, because you don't like being interrogated about your privacy, or tell them you're struggling with infertility and it's painful to be reminded of your issues with their nosey questions. People seriously lack tact these days...

      I hope you're seeing a doctor for your infertility issues - I mean, duas are great, but you may want to also get some medical help...

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