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Poor family boundaries, and I’m tired of it

I am at a turning point. My father does not care if he is naked in front of me. He doesn’t lower his gaze and I have advised him, but he simply said that he didn’t know I was around. This doesn’t happen once but plenty of times, as our rooms are opposite each other. My mother, on the other hand, does not share the room with him anymore, and has since made the living room entirely hers, even getting dressed in front of my nephews.

Cruel sister-in-law

I need everyone to know the truth about her…

A Close same-sex friend of mine likes me

A friend told me she had a crush on me… The news spread like wildfire, everyone thought we were together.

How can I prove my fiance is innocent ?

His name is spoiled for a false claim and everyone backbites and gossips.

Problem with in laws

I feel like I’m getting bullied by my own family members.

I want to save my marriage and my relationship with in-laws from my sister

I want her to stay far far away from my hubby and in-laws. Because she’s good at playing with words I fear she’ll spoil my relations with my in-laws too.

Backbiting vs verbal abuse

With the passage of time and increasing abuse I became mentally tortured and could no longer think logically. I started reacting and answering and using very harsh words.

I am not able to forgive myself for my behavior…

What I did and said is killing me so much for doing this to my mother, under whose feet is jannah and who Allah has commanded to be kind to.

Divorce or stay?

I am confused… I do not have much time as within a month his visa would be current and I wouldn’t want him using me for that only if he wouldn’t stay.

Backbiting

I don’t even remember the people I wronged. How can I ask them for forgiveness ?