Tag Archive for ‘emotional abuse’

He threatens divorce when he’s angry with me
He knows how much I love him and what I have been through to be with him. He tells me he loves me all the time, and when he gets angry over little things he says he wants a divorce. I don’t know what to do, he hasn’t spoken to me for a week now.

He is angry with me for my behavior
I am lookin for some help in my marriage. My problem is he thinks I am a snob. He came home late the other night from having dinner with friends even though he knew I had spent the afternoon cooking for him and one friend but i didnt say anything. He decided to have some anyway when he came home and ridiculed it.

Abusive Brother, Forced Engagment and Sexual Molestation
I grew up and it got much more serious. He’s given me black and blue eyes and made me bleed and very much hurt me even though I’ve always listened to him. If I didn’t listen to one word of his, then I would be done and beaten and my parents would do nothing about it and my mom would say: “maybe you should listen and do what he says, your dad will be home, you can tell him.”

Should I stay in my emotionally abusive marriage for the sake of the children?
I have been married for 14 years and have three children. Our marriage has been breaking down for years. My husband comes from a very different culture. His family are very close knit, they only marry cousins and mix with their own community. They rarely venture out. My husband was the first to marry outside […]

My husband and his family constantly criticise me and have stopped me from talking to my family.
I am married for 5 years, blessed with a daughter and I know should not get divorce for my daughter’s sake. But my husband hates me, abuses me, swears at me, asks me to earn more, curses me…

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my loveless marriage?
Salam,
I have been married for the past 18 years it was an arranged marriage. I have struggled with my feelings for such a long time and tried and prayed to Allah (SWT) to help me love my husband but it has never happened.

Husband moved to another state 6 months ago
I am a Muslim revert of 8 years. Four years after I made my Shahada, a younger professional fellow (20+ yrs) persued me on a Muslim matrimonial site, and we married after several months both civilly and Nikkah. Four years later, he has still not told his family about me or his marriage. Shortly after we married, he disclosed to me that he was sick and could not work. I had to work full time to support him from the get-go, along with supporting my teenager.

Problems in marriage due to Inlaws
I am feeling very anxious and frightened about puting words down about my current circumstances but I feel I no longer have a choice, I pray that Allah (SWT) guides me and do wholeheartedly trust that only He can give me the strength to make the right choices.

On the verge of divorce, can it be saved?
My wife in 2011 became a very angry and abusive towards me, and a few discussions with her parents did little to resolve the issues. She kept on falling out with me accusing me of things like affairs etc and became very paranoid.

My husband tells me I am not good enough, should I leave?
I am a 24-year-old married girl. It was an arranged marriage. And it seems he was forced to marry me by his mom though he doesn’t have any love affair as such.My husband repeatedly says he regrets this marriage and colours of his life has vanished?