Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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My wife wants khula but I still love her

My wife has been berating me to her parents behind my back., even recording me once. I wonder if I am being punished for a sin I committed through text with another woman?

Family not allowing my marriage because of caste

I want to marry a guy and we have been in a relationship for 7 years now. His family is also ready with the marriage proposal and have approached my family a number of times. But my family is not agreeing. The only reason they are giving is that the boy is not of our caste, although he is also a Muslim. We have tried convincing them but of no use.

Haram relationship!!!

My fiance keeps telling me that he’s not ready for marriage.

Marrrying a guy I don’t like

He’s just not the guy I wanted or expected to marry in terms of looks. My heart doesn’t feel right.

Need immediate help on marriage

But now I feel like I should go back to her .. I don’t understand why I am hopping like this. But I feel I will never get a girl like this in life, she is perfect for me.

Not attracted to fiancee…

If I cancel the marriage it will put a lot of shame on my family but if I go through with it I will maybe be miserable forever.

Future to be fiance

Help me please. Does he deserve forgiveness and is worth marrying? And how can i stop living in ocd about his past?

Used and tricked by fiancé

Sometimes I hate him and sometimes I miss him and wonder if it was my fault because i didn’t control him and I let him make me that way.

How do I get out of this?

It’s just 2 and a half months that we have broken up, but he is happy now MashaAllah. I pray for his happiness but I still cannot stop thinking about him.

Is attraction necessary?

There’s just something about the guy I just can’t stand. It makes me so scared the thought of spending my whole life with someone I’m so repulsed by. Should I go ahead with this marriage?