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Is my friend still considered a virgin?

Does being touched sexually by another guy mean that she is not a virgin anymore even if she has not had sex with him?

My brother has a mental inbalance

My brother suffers from paranoia. He prays his obligatory salat. He follows the sunnah, but his ahlak & his adab is not consistent with that of our Prophets peace be upon them..

Can I do salaatul istikhara to know whether to take medicine or not?

Is it possible to perform salaat isthikara to know whether to take a medication or not? Since I am in the medical field..

Should she tell him about infertility?

What should a girl do if she comes to know that she might not have babies? Should she tell her fiancé or keep quiet as her parents tell her to? She’s not happy with the engagement and apparently one of the reasons why she was forced into marrying a guy from the family seems to be that if she remains childless, the extended family won’t kick her out of the house.

Physical Exhaustion and whats the right balance between deen and dunya?

My friends adore me, alhamdulillah and I try to be there for them. But they tire me out. People tire me out. I can’t explain it. Just talking to people tires me out, drains all my energy away. So I am very selective. But I know they like my company. I’ve been told, I’m nice and etc, so alhamdulillah. I’m great in small groups, and just dispensing ideas, and planning advisory positions. Rubbish at service. I don’t know, is this a sign that I’m not being Islamic or is it just my personality or the way Allah swt made me. I don’t know.

I want out of this marriage as my husband’s condition hasn’t improved even after two and a half years.

I came to know about his mental illness(suffering from OCD ) only after the marriage which his parents had hidden from me. I was not able to tolerate it as the illness makes him do things very late and sometimes he speaks to himself ,takes hours to finish his prayers and moreover we are not compatible by a percent. We had many fights; seeked psychiatric help to cure him and save the marriage but now after 2 and half years; he is still the same and now I don’t want to continue as I am losing my own mental stability due to the stress he is causing me; can I go for divorce? we have a 1 n half year old son and he is my only concern now and my husband pleads me not to go away.

I am on straight Path now, but dreaming about him every night.

Then he says “Listen I really like you” and I was very shocked! But I didn’t tell him I liked him back (I’m really trying to be a better person than before) then he said “It’s obvious that you’re attracted to me, and please do not be ashamed” and I ignored it, so we changed the subject….

I can´t see the point of being alive anymore.

My mum also constantly puts me down and makes me feel like a piece of crap and it led me to stop eating properly. I was a UK size 8 before and now I don’t even fit properly into a size 6. Being thin is the only thing that gives me satisfaction now.

My husbands marital status with ex wife is eating my brain

He promised me he will divorce her once he’ll be out from jail, and I asked for it. Sometimes I feel like I am selfish and I had wronged myself in front of Allah for asking him to divorce his wife.

Is halal to put braces for teeth?

my name is saniyah I am 21 yrs old.. i just wanna ask that i have a crooked teeth so can i apply braces for teeth ..