Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘pre marital relationship’

Used, manipulated, gaslighted, and then left by a man

My boyfriend of three years took my virginity and left me devastated.

I love both my boyfriend and a guy I met at school…now what?

They both love me and I love them. What should I do? How do you pray Istikhara? Please don’t judge me!

Man I love is engaged to someone else

The problem we have now is that his family doesn’t wants to break the engagement to the other girl. I am so stuck in this situation.

What should I do?

I am little tensed what to do – should I break this relation what will I tell him?

My life is falling apart and I don’t know what to do

i really want to follow the true path of islam. Please help me as i’m having suicidal thoughts.

I want to change and be a good Muslim

We committed zina, she got pregnant and after born a baby. After a few months I was totally disappointed with this. Last few years I don’t contact her and she also.

Repenting for a haraam relationship – will I ever get forgiveness from Allah?

I told him we could be more than just friends but without doing anything… but I let him touch me. After a month or two I told myself I must stop or else I will see myself in Jahanum.

We want to get married but our parents say we have to wait

Our families do not want us to be talking about marriage when its time for education so that means another 5 or 6 years of this haram relationship? Astagfar.

My friend’s husband had a past relationship

But since these 6 years my friend constantly imagines that him being with that girl and hurts. She cries always and is always depressed about his past. Is she sinning by doing this? What should my friend do to accept his present and understand him?

Sisters not willing to give my Christian girlfriend a chance

Her parents have seen for the last year that my sisters are unwilling to give her a chance. She feels unwanted from my family. My father has “approved” of her. She has been so hurt for the last year that she is practically over it.