Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Am I right to ask for Khula/divorce from my abusive husband?

I would like to ask my brothers and sisters out there if I am doing the right thing by asking for khula/divorce. I just haven’t got the energy to try and make this marraige work anymore and I apologise to everyone out there and even my family. The relative whom I always wanted to marry is still single and I believe that maybe allah will unite us, and this has been a test from allah to increase my imaan.

I was raped as a child, so am not a virgin. Which Muslim man will ever want to marry me?

I am a muslim girl. Today I am 25. I have lost my virginity when I was a kid because I got raped but nobody knows that. I got a boyfriend who used me and no body will believe if I tell them how that man used me because I was stupid. I believed him, I know everything is my fault.

I am having evil thoughts about the girl I wish to marry due to her past and can’t decide what to do? Please help

am a new Muslim, and 20 years of age and I am having some issues concerning relationships. I’ve known this girl for about nearly all my life and its beeen 3 months now since we confessed our love for each other but we’ve been in love for more than a year and I knew she loved me and that I loved her. I’ve never had sex in my life even though I wasn’t Muslim all my life and have been in several relationships but she told me just recently that she did have sex before with her previous “boyfriend” and he forced her? I cry every night asking for Allah’s help and every time I think about leaving her my heart aches and I just cant do it. I’ve never loved anyone like this in my life, to the point I would fall sick whenever I dont communicate with her.

My husband has changed after finding out about a previous relationship

Since I married 2 years ago, I have had problems totally committing myself to my husband because of a previous haraam relationship I had with a guy. I have since cut ties with the guy and repented. I read the quran regularly, I have been fasting and praying for forgivness from almighty Allah…

I want to be a straight muslim man, please help me.

When I was a little boy of just 2 years I lived in a large compound with a lot of neighbours and friends sometimes we even regarded each other as siblings.I was raped …

I lost consciousness and someone abused me.

I recently converted to Islam Alhamdullilah and Insha Allah I am going to get married to a wonderful man, whom is brother of my best friend’s husband. My problem is that I am not a virgin and don’t know if I should tell him or not? Before I converted to Islam; I never had a boyfriend or anything like that; I never dated but I was going through a terrible time at home.

Can I make a non-Muslim girl my slave ?

I was at a gas station and a girl approached me asking for money. She said she was trying to run away from her abusive boyfriend who was an alcoholic and would sometimes get drunk and beat her. I asked her if she had family she could go to. She said she does not want to go to her parents because they disowned her…

My husband wants to divorce me because I won’t leave my sister

I’m suffering from Mental illness and Eating disorder. Since im marrid with him his problem is my sis who lives few miles away. She doesn’t follow Islam. But when i was in need of help she was there for me who stopped her work when i was in the hospital.

I’m 18, met a scuba instructor on holiday and fell in love

I have just got home from my holiday in Egypt, where i met the most amazing guy ever (he worked at the scuba center at the hotel). He is muslim and i am from england, I am christian although i don’t go to church, (only for weddings, funerals and christenings.) I arrived back home early this morning, but miss him like crazy.

A Muslim teenager: lost, depressed, lonely homosexual

I was a good child, I sought Allah, I prayed 5 times a day as a child and even as a teenager. I stayed up long nights reading Quran , making Dikr.. I am not a faithless or unaware person. I know I need to change, I am very lost and confused and find myself doing bad things, talking to bad people.