My mother fought with my dad and left
"Abandoned."
Assalam'alaykum,
Nowadays I am very distressed since my mom fought with my dad and she left the house to stay with her brother.
It's been 2 and half months now. She has anger issues and very stubborn. I do not know what to do about it. Can it be black magic?
Due to this I am depressed since I am the only chid and I cannot express to anyone. Please tell me something to read and some duas so that everything gets better and get rid of my problems..
We did try to get her back home but she is still angry with my dad. Also my engagement was to take place in feb and I do not want to marry without my mother being at my side. My parents dreamt about my wedding since 10 year cause i have many health issues.
Should I do Istikhara? Please brother help me and guide me the right way, i have no one to help me.. Just hope things get better... In Shaa Allah.
- maryamsh
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Asalaamu alikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
I am very sorry for what you're going but the best thing you can do is be patient. There is a solution for everything. I dont really know any duas you can read but i think any dikr ( remebrance of Allah) will help...
(Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.)
(Qur'an 13: 28)
Do as much as supplication to Allah.
and as for your engagement;; wearing rings for the purpose of getting engaged could be bidah but am not entirely. Anyhow, you shouldnt be worried and let those issues affect your future marriage,
Umm Hafsah, good advice in general, but no one said anything about rings.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
you can read RABI RAHAM HU MA YA RABI SAGIRA.
i hope the brother can give u it's in the Quran but not sure in which surah.
also you can make dua in ur own language.
I hope ALLAH guide us all AMIN!!!
salaam
do istahara ask for allah to guide you to a better end to this situation to help you and do not just blame your mother with out knowing all the facts no mother would just up an leave over just one little argument there is alot more to it and it takes to people to get up set the action of someone is the cause to anothers upset your father is also to blame try and get them both to sit and talk about it if it is safe to do so to see if they can get to the bottom of it or even to some resolution, and maybe it might help you and your mum if you went and talked to your mum if it safe and let your mum know how you feel and that you want her by your side when you get married
allah hafiz
Maryam, as-salamu alaykum,
We really don't have sufficient details to know what is going on with your mother and father. It could be that your mother has been unhappy in the marriage for some time, and that's the reason for her anger issues. I doubt that it's black magic.
The rift between your parents is most likely not something you personally can solve. It's not your fault, nor is it your responsibility.
Still, see our link at the top of the page, "Dua in Islam". We have many good dua's there for every situation.
Even if your parents are separated, that doesn't mean that your mother should not attend your wedding. Visit your mother and speak to her. Tell her that you want her to be a part of your life and your wedding, even if she and your father are still apart.
Wael
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