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From a pious Muslimah, I became ‘a sinner’, now I want to love Allah

This all happened to me and i deserved it! I really want to Love just ALLAH to ask for forgiveness, I just want to pray and be a good girl, I want to b purified from everything. But because he’ll come back and make me emotional by not studying and doing something harm to his self and i Know my self i’ll again go for him which i really don’t want to!

Family arguments and emotional blackmail

6 years ago when my ex-husband first left this relative’s husband came onto me on 3 different occasions. After the 3rd incident where he touched my arm I mentioned this to the relative… she said I was jealous of her life and was after husband. I still remained close to her as I was a single parent and had no one else to help me. She would tell me other family members were saying I said this and that to them when i hadn’t, so we would fall out.

Blackmailed for something I did when I was 15

When I was 15 I shared some photos with a man who manipulated me emotionally. Now I’m 21 and married and that man is blackmailing me with those photos.

He is blackmailing me and making my life hell

im being blackmailed by a pakistani national in uae. He has taken over my life 100% .im divorced with 2 sons. I met him a year ago and he ask to marry me..

Premarital sex, blackmail, marriage and relationships; it’s complicated.

Also..I wanna know,If I had premarital sex with a guy and marry that guy,will my sins be forgiven? I am really repenting my past sins..but I can’t live like that anymore..I know there’s nothing to do..but at least suggest me something…I really love my boyfriend..I wanna get married to him and spend my life with him…but my condition is way too complicated.I know I shouldnt have listened to that blackmailer in the first place but I made so many mistakes…I wish I could die..please suggest me anything..

Fiance is threatening to expose my nude videos unless I marry him for a period of 2 days!

He said lets get married, have a marriage contract and I can write it up, and he said he is willing for this marriage to be only for 2 days, and he will not touch me in any sort of way, not going to get involved in any sort of sexual intercourse. And then he said after divorce you can leave. Reason being to this he said is that atleast he has married me and got me.

Always felt like a bad person, cheated on boyfriend and being blackmailed.

I am writing because all my life I have felt deep down like a bad person. My youngest memories as a very very small child were of lying awake at night (EVERY night) crying until I fell asleep out of fear of death and that God (at that time I had only really been educated about Christianity and even so, only of a little of that religion), would judge me as evil.

My husband hates his stepdaughter

I got married to someone from Pakistan. Neither of us were happy in this marriage, he became very violent with me as did I. Then, I made the worst mistake of my life, I was seperated from him and I met someone else. I began having an affair, astagfirullah. Then my parents told me I have to give my husband another chance so I did, trying to finish my affair.

Boyfriend wants me to convert to Islam so that we can marry

I gave him my virginity and when I got pregnant, he suddenly got his faith back to Islam and became very religious. He changed his views and will only marry me if I convert to Islam because, he is saying that it is their law that a Muslim man can’t marry a Christian woman.

Family pressured me into getting engaged. I dont want to marry him, please help!

I’m a muslim female and I desperately need your help. I was previously engaged to a close cousin but the engagement was called off due to family issues..