I want a peaceful family life!
Asalaam-u-Alaikum,
I don't want to end my life, I am innocent.
I don't know what to do with my life just because of my small family creating problems for me. I tried all to solve it but they just want me to get out of home or be a maid in the house. They don't let me study or work, and also create misunderstandings for me with relatives, friends and neighbourhood. I am a brilliant child; I have been since little, very caring and peace loving but my owns are not such. I am still young but very helpless, I prayed a lot; InshAllah, I wish to live with a peaceful supportive family and study, anyone who can help me to please inform me as soon possible.
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I would love to help u. Sometimes my mom doesnt understand me, and have some family probs.
Once on this website I told someone a wazeefah or khatam where I said say the last verse of surah yaasin this many times to get a good propsol, but now im not sure if that was the right verse to say. And I feel quite bad now... I will try to see what I can find out for u to help u in ur situation. There is one khatam that u can do which will create love in the persons mind for u. Try to find out how this khatam is done, what needs to be said and how many times. Ask someone a local imam perhaps they may know of such khatams etc, they may be able to help. I will find out too.
And also find out if there is any blackmagic etc on ur relatives.
And dont lose hope, continue with prayers. And since ur a girl, one day u will get married and start a new phase of life. That doesnt mean u shouldnt care about ur blood relatives, but u can look forward to a new family soon too. Pray for ur future as well as for ur present. And never lose hope from Allah no matter what happens. This life is a test, just do what pleases Allah and u will be rewarded for it.
Assalaamu'alaikum Sis
Again a new word...may someone help me here, what is khatams??
Alrite, sis when u toking about study...please elaborate, u mean University or college??
When u come to work, what u mean??
By the way, sorry sis i really dont know ur situation by im trying to have a picture of it.
So, sis forget about the blackmagic, why, because if u performing ur Salaah as it should be, Alhamdulillah it will not affect ya and take precaution stil, oki!!
So for me, there is no much communication in between ya n ur parents. And there is lack of the recitation of the Quraan in ur Sweet Home. Right now u had already give me the a piece of the problem, u dont have peace of heart, meaning there is something fishy somewhere in ur A'maal or intention...sorry sis im telling u this for ur best, now its up to u...
They r ur parents, whatever they do to u, just accept it. In islam is allowed to disobey ur parents only when they asked u to perform Shirk, thats it...otherwise respect them and obeys.
Sis this is the test from Allah Ta'ala, just have patience and react well to the test, soon ull live in peace. Peaceful life...hehe...zats wat everybody wants my dear, in only one thing ull find this, go with the flow of Deen!!! Sis Allah Ta'ala says in the Quraan accordingly that GOOD and BAD is from ME, so sis just go with it!!! As Allah Azza Wajal says in the Quraan accordingly that after Difficulty there is Facility, so wait sis, and by the way as a reminder, Patient starts at the time u cant hold on anymore...so may Allah Ta'ala helps ya...
Take Care
Over n Out
Ma'assalaam