I see my loved one on webcam, is it a sin?
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Dear Sisters And brothers ..
I need your help. I am a Muslims girl and I am madly in love with one of my cousin. I lived in USA and he lives in my own country . We are seeing each other every day on webcam, is that sin or not ?
We want to marry but we can't because he can't come to USA, although he is trying his best to reach me, as soon as possible ... I can't go to my own country either because my father did not allow me to go ..
My mother and my sister know about us, that we love each other. His mother , brothers and sisters knows about me, the only thing is that my father did not know about it .
He told me that whenever he´ll come to USA by himself, he will ask me from my father and INSHALLAH we 'll do our Nikha but before Nikha,... seeing each other on webcam, is that sin?
Please help me ..
parinaz
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As salamu alaykum, Sister Parinaz,
Seems that you are virtually dating him, aren´t you?
As far as I know you are having a relationship with your cousin, and Allah(swt) save us when your father get to know, he may be very angry because everyone knows exept him, talk to your mother about it, but I believe if your cousin has good intentions towards you, you may stop any contact until he is able to talk to your father, insha´Allah.
You don´t have a way to know if his intentions are for real, then careful with this, you are the one that has something to lose, and if your father get too annoyed, you may lose all the opportunities to be with him, even if he has good intentions, think about it.
All my Unconditional Respect and Love,
María
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salamun alaikum, please try to inform your father so that you can do every thing on the way of islam, because your parents are the back bone of your relationship if any one of them deny you have no choice.
May Allah help you ameen.