Husband divorced me out of nowhere and I’m devastated
Salam! I'm kinda confused with my recent divorce. It kind of came out of nowhere and I was/am devastated about it! My ex husband asked me to leave 5 months ago, for no apparent reason!
I will not go into exact details because my question is really about my divorce. So last week he made it official at the masjid, in the document I read that he had said that this is his 3rd divorce, I was shocked cause that never really happened! We have had arguments during our marriage and I would leave to stay at my parents house till we cool off, he would end it and then a couple of days later he would ask me to go back! He NEVER actually told me that I was divorced the times that I left!
Well, I am asking if there is any way we can get back together in the future, if it is written in the divorce document that he has said that he divorced me 3 times, does it count as 3 times and therefore we cannot get back together unless I get married to someone else and divorce him? My ex has some issues...now he is sending me emails saying that he misses me, after he already divorced me! My worry is, if he does want to get back together, is that even possible?
Someone is already asking for my hand in my marriage, he seems like a good enough man but I still feel scared to say yes just in case there is a chance that me and my ex can get back together! I'm not saying 100% I would get back with my ex... I just want to know if it is possible! I never wanted the divorce to begin with... Insha'allah God will show me the right path, I'm just so sad and confused!
Thank you so much for your answers, they are highly appreciated!
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