After 13 years I have discovered that my husband is a playboy
I have been married for 13 years. After the 13th year I have finally realised that my husband is a playboy and had been cheating on me. I am unable to bear the shock. I am finding it difficult to live with him now.
He doesnt seem to be trying to change himself. Instead he says that he will do what he wants.
I have two sons. What as a muslim woman should I do? I have temporarily moved to another room in the same house. as I need to recover from this shock. What should be my next steps in such a situation?
- Sister Hana
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Salaam alaikum sister,
Subahan Allah I'm almost in the same situation. Mine is a little different because I found out right after we got married. He meets woman from the internet for sex, each time I confront him he lies about it. Just recently I found out he is talking with coworker I introduced him to help her move. I thought she was my sister but it turn out that they have been talking inappropriately. Every time I go to work he comes home to watch porn for his break. He has no Islamic value and acts and behaves like a non Muslim. But when he sees other ppl doing it he is the first one to judge. I also really don't know what to do. I'll keep u in my du'aa. Please make du'aa for me also.
asalamu alaikum,
firstly i would like to apologise for what you been going through. in islam men has to give the wife her rights and status if that is not met then it is permissable for the wife to seek divorce. i advise you to leave him its not right the way he is treating you, hope things work out inshallah
ma salama
asalamu alikum,
i have a sensetive problem i want to share with you. we met and fell in love.he gave me enough time .we told my parents .the problem was he was married. he said to my parens her wife is going to live in canada and she has taken the compensation already, we got married,after 15 years when he got sick his wife came out demands every right and as i know now he didn't say many things to me .he is in comma now ,i couldn't ask him why he lied to me?