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Question regarding listening/ reading Quran in Urdu, seeing late father in dreams and break up with cousin

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Asalamalykum everyone,

I have some questions if anyone could answer them then please do so:).

1- I wantd to know is listening or reading the Quran in Urdu allowed?

2- I lost my dad and get dreams that nothing has happened like he's with us and everything is normal. I have been having these dreams for many days and want to know what they mean?

My last question is about my cousin who I broke up with after he betrayed me.

I see him many times and see him very happy, he has moved on so much but not me? This betrayal  killed me but he is happy with other girls. Please help me in this as much as u can :'(.

Jazakallah will be waiting for responses 🙂

Jaweriya.


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  1. walaiku asalam

    As well as my knowledge is concerned , Qur'an e pak must be recite in arabic and one can read the translation in urdu as well , likewise there are thousands of ways to listen the recitation of Qur'an e Pak with urdu or english or in whatever language u understand .i assure you that u will get more awareness if u read Qur'an e Pak with translation(instead of reading the translation only).

    As well as ur dreams are concerned , one usually dreams what he thinks about or what is in ur "la shaoor"(iam unable to recall its English translation), i e in childhood u usually dreams nightmare after watching any horror movie .
    Death of ur father and break up with ur cousin were the incidents that are probably unforgettable for u ,seeing ur father with you is what makes u comfortable and watching ur cousin with other girls is a fear in ur la shaoor.the same u see in dreams , try to divert ur mind towards any other think for one week and u will started dreaming about it also . so keep praying for ur father and stop thinking about ur cousin , if he is in ur fate he will b urs if not then its useless to torch er urself , Inshallah u will find any better guy then him.
    We pray to Allah to grant eternal peace to deceased soul of ur father and may protect the family from all sort of trouble and problems and grant u pplz all the happiness of life .
    Asad

  2. Thank you brother 🙂
    Well I don't want my cousin with me in future or any how
    I just don't want him
    But can't stp thinkng abt him

  3. Wa Alaikum as Salam Sister Juweriya,

    The problems have been addressed well above, but you seem dissatisfied.

    You can read the translation of the Quran or listen to it, but it is preferred that you understand it in Arabic though.

    You dreams maybe a reflection of your thoughts. Maybe because you love your father a lot. Just pray for him, because according to a Hadith, Allah's Messenger, sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said, "When a human being dies, all of his deeds are terminated except for three types: an ongoing sadaqah, a knowledge (of Islam) from which others benefit, and a righteous child who makes du'a for him." [Muslim and others]

    So, increase your fathers good deeds by doing Dua for him.

    Regarding your last issue, the best and the most effective solution is that you move away from your current city or locality, thus not see him and not remind yourself of him. But this is not possible in your case as you are too young and can not afford to even get married at this stage. Hence, all you can do is avoid him as much as possible and avoid talking about him to anyone, even on this website, so that you totally become neutral about him. Whenever he comes before you, pass by him with honor and do not show that you ever liked him. This will insha Allah help.

    Muhammad Waseem
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  4. Brother waseem I had posted this question lng b4
    But then as I got cnected to you I got my ansswers n did as u said:)
    So then I saw that the question got submited now when I know the answer u gave me:)
    I appriciate u as always thank you bro 🙂

  5. Hmmm jazakallah 🙂

  6. Wa alaikum as salam
    Dear as i know that reciting the holy quran must be in its real language (Arabic). where the question of urdu or any other language you can read the translation to understand the quran which must be helpful for any human being in his different aspects of life.
    May ALLAH give power of reciting and understanding quran to everyone.
    ALLAH HAFIZ

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