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Please suggest me a wazifa to convince his mother of my love for him

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ASALAM O ALAIKUM sir,

I am in a very strange situation please help me... i fell in love with my cousin, and we both are honest with each other, and i am too much worried, because his mother don't want him to be married within the family, please tell me some wazifa that will help me to make his mother know that i really love him and i would be obedient.

Thank you,

Huda.


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  1. ASSALAMALAIKUM-
    THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS WAZIFA -
    THIS NAME IS USED BY THE GRAVE WORSHIPPERS GURUS SITTING BY THE GRAVES FOR BUSINESS WHO MAKE THE FOOL OUT OF WOMEN TO GET SONS AND GET SOME DESIRE FULFILLED-

    ALLAH HAS YOLD AND NABI SALAHAUALAHAIWASLAM HAS TAUGHT THE TAHAJUD PRAYER SO STICK TO WHAT IS ISLAMIC NOT TO WHAT IS INNOVATION DOING THAT WAZIFA ETC ETC YOU WILL LAND UP IN SIN SINTEAD OF GOOD DEED-
    SEE EXAMPLES ARE MANY IN THIS CLICK IT WILL OPEN-
    http://www.islamicity.com/hadith/action.lasso.asp?-db=Services&-lay=Hadith&-op=cn&-find=hadith_textS&-format=sreply.htm&-Error=error.htm&-Max=20&-SortField=Hadith_Nbr&-SortOrder=Descending&-op=cn&hadith_textS=hajj

    Narrated Ibn Abbas
    Whenever the Prophet offered the night (Tahajjud) prayer, he used to say, "O Allah! All the Praises are for You; You are the Light of the Heavens and the Earth. And all the Praises are for You; You are the Keeper of the Heavens and the Earth. All the Praises are for You; You are the Lord of the Heavens and the Earth and whatever is therein. Youare the Truth, and Your Promise is the Truth, and Your Speech is the Truth, and meeting You is the Truth, and Paradise is the Truth and Hell (Fire) is the Truth and all the prophets are the Truth and the Hour is the Truth. O Allah! I surrender to You, and believe in You, and depend upon You, and repent to You, and in Your cause I fight and with Your orders I rule. So please forgive my past and future sins andthose sins which I did in secret or in public. It is You Whom I worship, None has the right to be worshipped except You ." (See Hadith No. 329,Vol. 8)

  2. Salamualaikum,

    There is no Wazifa for such a thing. All you can do is ask Allah His Choice through Istikhaarah. In sha Allah you'll find His Help. But then, you should accept whatever the result, negative or positive.

    Muhammad Waseem
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

    • thank you, and what is the procedure to do it?

      • You first need to understand the dua of Istikhaarah fully.

        Pray two rakaa'aat of nawafil, and read the dua of Istikhaarah, which is:

        Allâhumma inni astakhiruka bi ilmika wa astaqdiruka biqudratika wa as’aluka min fadlikal-azimi, fa innaka taqdiru walâ aqdiru wa ta'lamu walâ a'lamu wa anta allamul ghuyubi. Allâhumma in kunta ta'lamu anna hâdhal amr (mention the need) khayrun li fi dini wa ma-ashi wa aqibati amri faqdir-hu li wa yassir-hu li thumma barik li fihi wa in kunta ta'lamu anna hâdhal amr (mention the need) sharrun li fi dini wa maâshi wa aqibati amri fasrifhu anni wasrifni anhu waqdir liyal-khayru haythu kâna thummardini bihi.

        0 Allah, I ask of You the good through Your knowledge and I ask You to grant me ability through Your power and beg Your favour of infinite bounty, for surely, You have power and I have none, You know all and I know nothing and You are the Knower of all that is hidden. 0 Allah if in Your knowledge, this matter be good for my faith (Din), my livelihood and the consequences of my affairs in the world and the Hereafter, then ordain it for me and facilitate it from me and grant me blessing in it. But, f in Your knowledge this matter is bad for my faith, my livelihood and the consequences of my affairs in the world and the Hereafter, then turn it away from me and turn me away from it and ordain for me the good wherever it be, and cause me to be pleased with it.

        Do this wih trust in Allah and in sha Allah you will be Guided by Allah.

        Muhammad Waseem
        IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  3. Salaams,

    Sister, I think the best thing you can do is tell your parents about what you are thinking and feeling for your cousin. There is no way you will be able to win his mother over on your own, without any help. Your parents, one of whom would likely be the blood-sibling to one of his parents, will be able to advocate on your behalf. They can talk to his parents and try to work something out, or at the very least try to get some more valid reasons why they are hesitant to allow the marriage to go forward.

    We all do our best to seek Allah and petitition Him to grant us our desires, but we also have the responsibility to take the necessary steps forward to achieve our dreams. Allah very rarely does all the work for us 😉

    -Amy
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  4. I am a 19 year old girl..I llove a boy named bilal and want to marry him.but his parents are bot ready for me because of my family..pllzz suggest me sumthing beneficial so th
    at I get married too hime

  5. i love a boy even he also love me more and i want to marry him. but he will not agree to tell to his mother and familly about our relation bcz of he is afaired his mother...plzzz suggest me some benificieal dua or wajifa or else for he will be ready to tell in his familly and i get to marry him.

    • sheen, read the answers given. In Islam we use dua' to ask Allah, not wazifa. If you need personalized advice, please log in and write your question as a separate post.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  6. Each & Every Problem Has the Proper Solution.
    Islam is the completed religion covers all the solutions of all the problems.
    in Simple Words: Do you Need Help of Allah in life.? if yes then the solution is PRAYER
    in the holy Quran it is clearly mention that ALLAH says (( GET MY HELP WITH SABR and SALAT))
    i strongly believe that whenever Allah helps then there is nothing to defeat the person (because Allah helps him) No problem to worry of problems, Perform Prayer and keep giving your applications and complains to Allah almighty after attending mosque or at home after Namaz...
    Must remember that ALLAH says (( GET MY HELP WITH SABR and SALAT)) so are you ready to get help from The Lord ALLAH PAK....??

  7. I am in a very strange situation please help me... i fell in love with some one , and we both are honest with each other, and i am too much worried, because his mother don't want him to be married please tell me some wazifa that will help me to make his mother know that i really love him and i would be obedient. or hum dono is realtion ko countinue karna chahty hi plz help me

    • sana, there are no such things as wazifas to change other people or convince them of something. Let your parents talk to the boy's parents and see if they can arrange the marriage. But if the mother is dead set against it, then this is not the match for you.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  8. Please help me i am facing same suituation

  9. I need wazifah to convience his mother and brother and melt their heart.

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