Need duas or wazifa to make my parents listen!
Actually I'm very much tensed. I belong to saudia arab , I came to Pakistan 6 years back due to family problems and of course when I came here I had to continue my studies. So the water of pakistan did not suit me. I was not able to sit for a long time in school so my parents decided to hire a private teacher to teach me olevel by the grace of ALLAH we found some one who was ready to help us and i completed my olevels with 5 subjects.
Now the problem is that a small fight took place between the both families and again there is no institute were I can apply because I have 5 subjects with out urdu and pak studies no chance of admission in pakistan so the best option was that sir only. I am saying that because they live near our house and beside them there is no one near us who knows about olevel or alevel.
So after that fight my parents refused to teach me from them. I want to study further from him and my parents dont listen to me they have just stuck on their ego. Why cant they understand that human beings do mistake and we should have the strength to forgive someone?
Okay now please tell me any dua or wazifa that I can recite to agree my parents on this. You have no idea what I am going through. I offer daily 5 times prayer. I offer salat ul hajah. I pray dua as much I can but still I want specfic dua and wazifa. Kindly help me.
Jazakallah may ALLAH show us all the right path.
Ameen.
~Amna456
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Amna456, Asalaamualaykum,
Your parents have had an argument with this previous tutor of yours and perhaps they cannot find a way to reconcile yet. So dont push them on that, that is between them. Just push them to find you a good tutor. They want you to do to well in your studies right? So tell your parents that you need a good tutor and that if they will not allow the previous one to teach you, then they should find you another good one asap. I am sure that there is more than one A-Level/O-Level teacher in your vicinity.
SisterZ
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i am 20 years old girl and i love a boy since 5 years now want to marry him.i am doing medical and he is nurse.my parents will not agree for him b/c he is nurse.please please send me a dua to make my parents agree for our marriage. i am always in stress for this.
Mahdia,
Please login and submit your question separately.
Abu Abdul Bari
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plz tell me dua for admission in clg 30th sep
is last date
asalaamualaikum,
hey is there anything to recite so that my parents dont fight at all..
there are frequent fight between them for small issues... and these fights continue for an year, they dont talk to each other dont even look at each other... Mom is very stubborn type... i dont know whta to do. Ramzan is coming up and worried alot.
pls kindly suggest!!
Jazakaaalah
Salaams,
I suggest you sit down with your parents and tell them how their fighting is affecting you. If you want further advice, please log in and submit your question as a separate post, and we will answer it in turn in shaa Allah.
-Amy
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as salaamualaikum wrb,
actually we love each other and want to get marry, i said abt this to my mama nd he met him and mama told my parents as a marriage proposal from his(mama's) side like his friends relative, it was all okay from my parents but after seeing his house nd knowng that he is having middle family background my parents are not ready.what to plz help me..how to agree my parents..plz plz tell me some dua.
By telling the i cant make my parents sad,plz help.
salaam..am 18 years old... actuslly my parents are good but my mum restricts me alot and nva happy with me....i prays all namza..duas..n do hijab every thing..but she always give me example of others and says am perfect...n her main problem is she doesnt allow me to have phone n she took my phn away frm me and doubts alot...so plz give me any dua that will make her like me alot,n doesnt restrict me frm anything.always listen to me,n allow me to have phone n always happy with me...plz
Your mother is correct in paying attention to you. Your mother loves you a lot -- that is why she is watching over you and making sure you don't have a phone. Not so long ago it was common for teenagers to NOT have a cell phone. This has only become common in the last while and most parents are jumping on this bandwagon with little thought about the negative influences their children face through technology--not to mention the extra bills most parents end up paying. I think your mother deserves an award!
Why is it so important for you to have your own personal phone anyways?
my problem is that my parents always fight together due to little reasons i am very much tensed........these fights have been started till we were little child but now we are too much elders and there is no improvement my sister s and brother is also too much tensed about this problem we can not even study properly because of these fights.......we have everything money,house,no financial problem but there is still no peace kindly give me the strongest wazifa for this purpose plzzzz
angel, see here:
Wazifa in Islam
Aside from dua', what your parents needs is counseling. Try encouraging them to see a marriage counselor. If that doesn't work, study at the library instead of at home.
Wael
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I want to change my school but I don’t know how to tell my parents they won’t listen
Lilly, I posted your question as a separate post here:
I want to change my school, parents won’t listen
Wael
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