Almost suicidal because of problem with private parts
Asalamu Alikum,
I am facing a big problem of small penis which is only 3 inches in size. I am trying to find solution but all in vain. Even i tried the penis enlargement Pills but the pills does not work at all. I thought exercise is better option, for about one month i found 1 inch increase in size, unfortunately . For one week i quit the exercise and the result the penis went to its original size of 3 inches.
Now my family is getting marriage proposals for me and they are pressurizing me for Marriage but they do not know about the problem i facing .when they ask about the marriage either i am silent or use an excuse like i do not have proper job.
If the penis is small you can produce a child that is the real truth and i know it.
i am frustrated, almost ready to suicide any time, tired of searching the internet.
Please help me .
Thank you
Javid
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Salam my br. I have never et heard of anyone as a muslim complain about this....Seriously? In islam sex Intercourse whatever is fueled your mind and all muslims in general should understand this.The purpose is to bring pious children in this world.
I remember my teacher would day not toouch jiggly jiggy for the nur will come off your face
.My br. A women will love you for who you are..be it if you were small tiny BLK white albino handicap Def blind etc...So does penis.what size matter
It sounds that your iman is not correct and the duniya world has effected you! Understand this that despite all the intelligence or wealth a person might have .HE WILL NEVER SUCCEED IN BOTH OF THE WORLD'S. THE REAL AND TRUE SUCCESS IS OBEYING THE COMMANDMENTS OF ALLAH THROUGH THE TEACHINGS OF PROPHET MUHAMMAD S.A.W. .THIS IS FACT
AND TAKING ALL THIS MEDICATION FOR ANYTHING WILL ONLY DAMAGE SOMETHING ELSE IN YOUR SYSTEM BECAUSE
It goes against what Allah has made us simple.
So my advice is make sure she is one who prays 5 times and observes halal n haram .this will bring blessings in your home!!!!!!
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OP: I am facing a big problem of small penis which is only 3 inches in size. I am trying to find solution....... I thought exercise is better option, for about one month i found 1 inch increase in size.
Are you talking about length of erect penis? If it grows from 3 to 4 inches in one month.....it could go to 5 and more in few months. Have you talked to a physician / sex therapist? If you STOP worrying about your penis and marriage, you may gain a few extra cms. How tall are you?
I'm a woman
But I will tell you this
Forget about your "Johnson"
Worry about being a good person with good faith and good income
If your wife is a good lady with an understanding heart, your Johnson length won't be important
It's not the size of your Johnson
It's the motion of your heart.
Good luck
Salamalekum
Ps. Wael or wally -admin of this place
Please don't delete this comment
I'm trying to help a brother with his Johnson issue.
First time i have heard from a girl about "Penis new name is Johnson And sorry pls don't mind
I apologize amigo.
I was not aware Johnson was on a more relegious scale
I was trying to censor myself.
Sorry sir.
Btw the name Johnson is an 1980's slang for the male genitals.
Ok Reshme Turcios Ali Don't worry and no need to sorry because you are not wrong.
Excuse me! why are you using this name Johnson instead of penis who gave you the permission to do this. John the baptist was Yahya A.S and he was not transgender the anti religion claim him to be a transgender and you are using Johnson ? do you find that courage to use such a holy name instead of penis. use your name reshme or reshma instead of penis okay. i am surprised the admin ddidn take any notice.
wael you live in America you know who is john and why people name their children as john?.
Hey bhai sahib zara relax ki jay
I was trying to censor myself
I wasn't aware that it was a relegious name.
If it is I apologize. I won't use the name Johnson
And I'm Pakistani American
Lived in Pak for over a decade
But what does that got to do with anything amigo?
This poor guy has confidence issues because of his genitals
And I'm trying to make him see their are ways to get him to get past it
Stick to the topic and help this guy.
He needs it
Why this name ? Reason ?
Johnson is a common nickname in America for the male genitals. The sister did not mean anything by it.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Lower you gaze brother wael!
just a piece of advise for you
Hey bruh what's johnson got to do with gazing? 😛
Salam,
Johnson is standard slang for penis, it is perfectly acceptable in America. No one thinks that a prophet is being made fun of when the word is used that way.
be courageous tell your family and sort out problem as a group. I met a guy with a tiny penis once and he had sex all the time and was a really good lover. There are some men with big penis and are selfish lovers. If you concentrate on the heart everything else will follow. Also my father killed himself sucide. It has devastated the family and now our family is not complete. Suicudd is the worst option you can take. You need to share the problem with family or doctor as a problem alone is always difficult
Continue exercises. Get Bathmate and sizegenetics. Both are excellent products to increase girth and length. On a side note blowing a woman's mind in bed does not require massive size. A woman's orgasm is 90℅ mental and 10℅ physical. Be a more attentive lover is enough but if you still insist then those devices above are great and endorsed by a lot of people for penis enlargement.
Are you overweight? Loosing weight could make it bigger. Since penis size has become a matter of life and death, you should see a sex therapist. A regular doctor may check if there is any medical reason behind the small size (zinc deficiency, hormonal deficiency etc). Marry a girl with small body frame.
W'salam bro,
As we usually don't talk about private parts (specially Muslims and specifically South Asians) out of modesty, etc. But as your problem is stressing you, so I would write candidly. Apology in advance from readers. Being a fitness enthusiast, I have researched a lot about physiology, so things aren't my point of view only. You can confirm them elsewhere.
Penis size is measured 2 ways: flaccid and erect. Flaccid size averages 3-5 and erect ranges from 4- 8/9. So there isn't any perfect size. Similarly, if you read anatomy of penis, you would find that it originates adjacent to anus. Most of it is inside one's body. As the temperature of the genitals is to be mentained, penis and scrotum slide back into body in cold weather. So it varies with weather too.
Women are also told that they should have such bodies as media shows them. In reality, women's breast size have huge variation e.g., small to med, to large and xl.
There isn't such thing as perfect.
Media and specially porn Industry have created unrealistic beauty standards, people who don't conform to those, feel doomed. You can talk to your father, brother, or any male relative about this. Again one feels embarrased that what would people say! As mentioned, there isn't any 'perfect' size. They would find you a girl with small stature. Physical trainers divide human bodies in 3 categories (again no one category is better than other and vice versa) 1. Ectomorph 2. Endomorph 3. Mesomorph. And 'build' or stature into small, medium, and large.
Similarly, body parts vary in size too. People can have small to extra large body parts. It's media that set the standard that women should be hour-glass shaped and have this height, and this bra size, etc. Men should be mesomorph, have six packs, have big muscles, and 8-10" penis. My suggestion would be to get rid of this artificial standard of sexuality and beauty.
I hope this would have resolved your problem. Similarly, women in surveys have told that they are not very much interested in penis size (although some may say otherwise) as long as they have good personality, income, and moral and religious values. Similarly, men don't always go for hour-glass shaped bodies, thigh gaps, and similar nonsensical standards and marry bulky women, or girls taller than them, etc.
I want to give you one interesting example. One of the primates (perhaps Orangutan have the tiniest penises) but they don't commit suicide because they don't have media or porn to tell them they can't mate because they have small genitals.
One last thing, sex has to do more with psychology/brain than genitals. If man/woman has the 'perfect' body but they aren't confident about their physique or have some issue in the back of their minds, they aren't going to 'perform' well and conversely if they don't have 'media perfect' or 'society approved' organs but they are OK with that, they would perform well.
Apology again, fo that candid talk!
I hope and pray you give up your stress and marry soon. Amen.
W'salam.
Very intelligent reply
Expecially about the orangutan.
Salam,
Just a thought for you. Your dad may possibly have the same equipment as you and he was able to get married and have you without killing himself. Now, if you think your genes are so bad that you should kill yourself, then maybe you could adopt someone and help them out with their life instead? There's a lot of other things to do before suicide.
What kind of exercise increases the size of penis a little, even if it is temporarily?
The size is something I have heard to be more of a concern amongst the non-muslims and even then many of them are not even bothered about it since they are made to be aware that it is about performance and not the size. Amongst them a few women might make it about size as long as 7 to 10 inches but many are more than happy with pretty much any size as long as it is about the man being confident in himself and being able to perform well.
All we Muslims need to know that whatever it is we have will suffice us. If the penis size is 3 inches when erect and it has stopped growing then Allah (S.W.T) wouldn't leave us hanging on the side with no way of being with someone and fulfilling their sexual rights. It just means we gotta turn to him to get the right person for ourselves and Insha Allah it will all work out.
Please choose a different username for yourself. This one is inappropriate.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Awww do I have to? 🙁
Yes please.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
This should be good