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Assalam -u- Alikum brothers and sisters.

I know this boy who showed interest in getting married to me, he did istikhara which came out positive and spoke to his family who is agreed with it. There is a lot of difference between two families and my family is not in favour of this marriage. Disappointed i asked Almighty Allah for help and i thought of istikhara. I did not pray salat ul Istikhara (official Istikhara isnt done by me) rather i just read the dua on n off. After that a third person (totally neutral) came to me and we just got in this discussion and i told them the whole story and they advised me not to put it as my ultimate choice.

should I take this as the answer of Istikhara or should I pray salat Ul istikhra and then rely on those decisions.

PLEASE HELP SOON

Rabi