Depressed from an unwanted divorce
Assalam Alaikum,
I stay in Mumbai, married to a guy 3 yrs back.. but now a year has passed on we are not staying with each other & I also don't know about his whereabouts. Actually we had an argument because of his mom and after that his mother dropped me to my parental place and since then I never met my husband neither had I spoken to him because my in-laws are not allowing me to talk to him.
But I really love my husband and I don't want talak from him, but now my in-laws are forcing me to give talak to him through court. I don't understand what to do but I don't want to lose my husband as well. I love him a lot & for that I need some dua & wazaif to bring him back in my life again.
Can anyone please tell me any dua or wazzaif.
One more thing: our court case is still going on. My lawyer is telling me to put one more case of 498 (A) on his family so that after looking to this he will definitely come to Mumbai at least for his parents but I know this case is a very cruel case, police can beat them a lot and I don't want this to happen but everyone is forcing me for that & I don't want to put this case on them.
I feel like dying. No one is trying to understand my problem not my husband, not my in-laws & not even my family.
Can anyone suggest me what should I do?
- shahida
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Hi sister, my sister actually is goin thru a similar problem. She got married and after two month he left her without telling her y. He just took all his documents when she wasn't home and was like he'll b back after three days once he fnds an apartment in the state he lives in. It's been almost two weeks and no wrd from him. Now she is filing for divorce, also she is pregnant and now his fam is sayin Tats not his child! Nerve they have. Another thing is tat he left his fam and married my sis, and at first he hated his fam and then all the sudden he leaves her for them. He only came to use her and live off his in laws. But in ur situation ill say, file tat case against his parents because there r the ones that ruined ur house. And show them wat they did was wrong. They shouldnt play peoples like this. Plus where is ur husband?! Did he also want to leave? If he didn't y didn't he contact u behind their back. Exactly what happened that caused her to kick u out!? I thnk ur relationship is not gonna work unless u talk to ur husband and move out. If he doesn't want to talk file tat care. Good luck. Wish u all the best.
hi sister,
If u love him so much when his mother what ever she drops u in your house. What u were waiting for why didnt call him and clarify matter. After that u file case against him now after one year when u suppose to file case again then u r thinking u love him. How ? And if he loves you why didnt he contact u mean he is dancing on his mom what ever fingures what do u think again u can leave peace ful in his hous
Well in your family matters why u r intrepting your laws and cousins did any one understand u and talk to yo ur hubby that time what was the matter why it happen
hi, i feel kinda silly trying to give advice when it comes to Islam and its laws as I my self am looking for many answers and now at the age of 24 have started paying more attention and praying to Allah to guide me down the right path. But one thing i do now is that ''heaven lies beneath your mothers feet' maybe the reason these men do these things is because they are afraid to say no to their mothers in fear they will sin. I only say this because i am in a similar situation....
since the day i got married i made the mistake of telling my parents and grandparents everything that went on in my marriage, and mainly pointed out the negative's in my husband (yes i do realise my mistakes now) but its not till my husband left me and our 2 kids under the age of three in a foreign country and returned to our country on his own anddd taking all the money we have in our ac, my family was furious calling him a 'sheytan' and advising me to file for divorce. Divorce is easy, we have to be forgiving as Allah is the most so why cant we be, I love my husband too much. His parents have said many bad words to me (i have always respected them and never look bad at them let alone say somthing disrespecting) and my have about him. Its come to the point where my husband said he will return but my family cant visit me anymore it brakes my heart as i dont think i can do this to my grandparents or mother. At the end of the day what theses 'husbands' do isnt right and they will have to answer to Allah on judgment day..but i always believe there is a reason for everything...even their behaviour such as this.