I miss the sex i had with my ex-husband, I turn to porn as a result
im a 21 year's old female, I got married 3 years ago. I marries him for 5 months.... Been divorced 3 years now...
I miss sex, am a very sexual person, I can't help but think about sex and remembering all the sex my ex and I had.
I can't Help but watch porn !
Help me!
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Salaams,
Marriage is a refuge from all types of sins. You are young, and I'm assuming you don't have any children as your marriage was so short. There is no reason that you shouldn't try to remarry. Three years after a divorce is a long time to remain chaste, so I suggest you try to see what brothers are out there that might be interested in marrying you and then you both can protect each other from the temptations of being single.
-Amy
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I absolutely agree with the above.
And if you choose to be single, then it's your choice. You might opt for eating less, fasting more, and be engaged in prayers for longer periods of time, do activities that involve lots of concentration, like helping people and poor children, etc.
Whichever you choose, just make sure it hurts you the least.
Sophia said a concise and good reply fast at least two days a week.. And tell me where do you abode.Because the place where you abode can create a lot of difference.
AOA to all,
i agreed to Ms ,Sophia's suggestion, i think she should spend her rest of time to get involved in religious way, it can calm her from sins, or more better to re-marry.
Assalamu aleykum wa rahmatullahi wa barkatuhu,
Honestly i feel you more then sex you miss your ex-husband. Otherwise getting married is the best option available for you. You are still young and have no kids so getting remarried should not be difficult for you.
Also watching porn is the big sin.
http://www.soundvision.com/info/life/porn/forgiv.asp
Remember in life you always have a option to say NO or avoid BAD DEEDS no matter in how bad situation you are in your life and for this reason you will held accountable for each and every single sin you did in your life and in Judgement Day you cannot give those excuses to Allah swt for doing sins which you give to yourself and others...
Hope this helps.
Salam
Asak,
You have a natural feeling and I pray to Allah that you get married. Try to talk to your parents and I am sure that you will find a good and long lasting relationship . Inshallah
Brother Afzal, please do not past your irrelevant link within the body of the comment. I have removed them all.
Wael
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