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thoughts of death


I'm 17 and nothing in my life is going right. I'm not planning to commit suicide, but there is nothing I want more than death. Do you think that if I pray hard enough to die on the night of qadr or any other night , I will die? I have wanted this for so long now.

I thought about it. I want to commit suicide, but I just can't so I'm going to ask God to take my life. There are so many reasons why I want this. I thought about it for so long. I just want to know if Allah will answer this prayer.


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  1. Salam Amy8,

    I don't think you entirely realise the seriousness of dying? Even if things get hard in life, you need to power through. When I was your age, I tried few times to commit suicide but with the grace of Allah I was not successful. I had a difficult upbringing with very tough parents. First girl of the family I couldn't understand why my parents didn't trust me. I ran away from home as well but ended being taken back by police officers. . Anyway, my life was tough but I kept going with a goal in mind to achieve and that helped me.
    I didn't have aanyoneto talk too at the time so had to faxe my issues alone but that made me stronger. My eldest brother was jealous of me and would give me a beaten whenever he flet like it. My dad was working hard for us and my mum ended being always in the middle of our arguments/beaten.

    I survived and went on to become popular and successful. Iam now in my thirties, married and I wouldn't think ever to take my life.
    Life is precious. Look at what is happening in Palestine, people are dying but they would do anything to keep on living.

    If you wanna talk, I am here. Let me know. I will give you my email for a chat

    Don't you ever ask Allah to die.

    Speak soon

  2. Try to recite last Aha of Surra Toba 9th surra in Quran Sharif from Hasbeeyallah ho......till end 10 times in morning and 10 times in evening. You will get happiness on your heart.

    How do you know nothing is going right in your life.

    I think you want to say nothing going in direction the way you wanted.

    Allah knows better than you

    This is common problem in teen ager they want ever thing their way and spicific time they wanted

    You Allah may punish the most frustrated people first may be becasue he will ask you why did you think I am not able to solve your small problems

    Try to recite fifth Kalma as much as you can


  3. Are you sure you have done good deeds enough to Stand front of Allah?

  4. Salams Amy8,

    I agree with Alif. Death is verrry serious and it means that you will be asked questions and read to from the book of your own life. Most likely you have not even gone to Mekka yet and youre not praying 5x either, from your other posts. Be careful sister.

  5. Your imagination is out of control. You need to calm down. You want to share why you want to die? Do you feel unloved? What is the main reason you want to die?

  6. Assalammolaikum Amy8 ,

    Suicide is Haram in Islam and also asking Dua for death is not allowed in Islam .Life will have ups and downs and you need to fight those challenges by trusting Allah . Please start praying Namaz regularly ,Reciting Quran and use Youtube to listen to Islamic lectures especially on topics likeLife after death . The life after death till the Day of Judgement, how will be that phase .And we need to prepare ourselves for this by submitting ourselves to Allah and following his Deen.

    Be positive and come closure to Allah i think you will feel good and will become positive in life .

    Allah hafiz

  7. Asalamu alikum,

    I know there must be a lot going on for you to wishing death, I am sorry that you are having a difficult time. May Allah ease your affairs my dear sister.

    As previous posters have said are your records so clean that you are ready for death? Are you confident that when you meet Allah you are purified of sins? Are you sure that you don't want to pray more, fast, go to hajj? Are you sure that you don't want to have children one day, get married?

    You are soooo young and you have a lot to look forward to.

    In the Quran, I wish I could find the verse...but it says..just because you say you doesn't mean you won't be tested.

    Our life my dear is a test. You will die one day, we all will. Don't rush the process. Just do good deed, follow islam and slowly deal with your struggles and Allah will grant you jannah. So think of all theses challenges as good deed givers. Someone bullies you, say thank you, alhamdulilah you are giving me good deeds. Strive to please Allah, and inshallah your suffering will end.

    Also I have some good new, you are a youth are you not....

    "There are seven whom Allah ill shade in His Shade on the Day when there is no shade except His Shade: a just ruler; a youth who grew up in the worship of Allah, the Mighty and Majestic; a man whose heart is attached to the mosques; two men who love each other for Allah's sake, meeting for that and parting upon that; a man who is called by a woman of beauty and position [for illegal intercourse], but be says: 'I fear Allah', a man who gives in charity and hides it, such that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives in charity; and a man who remembered Allah in private and so his eyes shed tears.'

    Narrated by Abu Hurairah & collected in Sahih al-Bukhari (english trans.) vol.1, p.356, no.629 & Sahih Muslim english trans.) vol.2, p.493, no.2248

    So, you are young and you can fit into that category of those who will be shaded by Allah on the day of judgment. what a blessing. Spend your youth in worship, and Allah is all powerful and all wise..he put you through theses challenges because he knows you can handle it. He loves you so much and he is testing you because he wants to increase you in status.

    Don't wish for death, wish for strength and to stay on path of Islam.

  8. Salam Amy8

    I dont know y u wanna commit suicide or y u are pray for death;all I know is there is no one

  9. Thats not good but if you really wanna die soon then ask Allah tell him to make you die more sooner not to give you bonus means not to give you a longer life.Inshallah he will answer your prayers if he chooses to but once you die there is no going back some people die and when the angel of death takes out their soul it hurts alot the death is painful if you did bad deeds in your life but if you die and did good in your life the the angel will pull you out much easier you wont feel anything but peace that is good death.Sometimes people smile when they pass away that is a very good sign that they will enter jannah.Think about it at least you are able to eat sleep you have everything but yet you are not happy there are people who suffer more than you do like in palastine people are suffering you already made 3 posts of suicide we gave you good advice stick with it.Ramadan is almost at its end instead of thinking to die pray read alot of Qur'an maybe you will not be alive next day and you are asking to die so what happens if you die tommorow who did you help did you respect your parents your neighbor did you pray read Qur'an???

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