Is this abandonment in Pakistani culture?
Aslamualykum sisters and brothers,
I used to ask question here about being pregnant alone and ignored from him and his family. It's now six months passed and my son has never met his father. The father ended contact with me, he blocked me out from everything. It is not fair with my baby, my child is innocent and didn't do anything wrong. That man said he feels nothing toward me and baby and he said this after became, but before I became pregnant he came to see me every 3-4 months!
Now he is not coming any more. His parents never knew that we married. But after I became pregnant they came to know and they do not do anything. I don't understand Pakistani culture. Now, I take care of my son alone. He is a healthy boy alhamdulilah, but he's never met anyone from his father's side.
Should I go to meet his parent's? Will they hurt my son or me? Will they beat me or kill me? I don't know what I should do.
Another question: if I go to Oman is there anyone or organization to make conversation between me, him or his parents? I'm worrying about safety. I went there twice but he kept me in a hotel. This time Insh'Allah if I go it will be me and baby.
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