Married for 4 years but haven’t conceived yet, kindly do istikhara for me
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It has been 4 years since my marriage, but I have not conceived a child. Kindly do Istikhaarah for me and tell me if I will have the happiness of children?
Innocent Lady.
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Salam Sister,
I am sorry but no one can do istiqara for you, its something you have to do on your own. Its not very difficult, it takes less than ten minz. There is an article on this site on how to perform it. Click on "Istiqara Questions and Answers" at the top of this page and everything you need will be there.
May Allah bless you with babies soon. Ameen.
Assalamu'alaikum,
Sister, Istikhaarah is a form of worship. No one can do it on your behalf. You should do it yourself. And in this case, I don't see a requirement for Istikhaarah. Istikhaarah has to be done when you are to begin something or seeking Allah's counsel in knowing if something is good for you or not. You should do du'as to Allah, drink Zam Zam, eat black seed, and Ajwa dates. Even cupping (Hijamah) maybe applicable. These are proven methods from the Quran and the Sunnah that I am aware of/can think of right now. (I am considering "not being able to conceive" an illness)
Additionally, you should not lose hope in Allah. I heard about this lady who bore a child 20 odd years after her marriage. Do not lose hope, trust in Allah and make sincere du'a to Him, obey Him and His Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam by following the Sunnah as it has to be followed.
I pray that Allah gives you a child and makes it the coolness of your eyes.
Abu Abdul Bari
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Eat 7 dates first thing in the morning before any food or drink daily.
Do cupping near your overies. Find someone who is experienced with a good reputation in the field of cupping.
ASSALAMALAIKUM
THIS YOU ARE ASKING IS OUT OF ISLAM BELIEF-Kindly do Istikhaarah for me........
1ST FOR CHILDREN DESIRE READ TAHAJUD DAILY CRY AND SEEK THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH AND EXPECT HIM TO GIVE YOU THE HAPPINESS OF CHILDREN NOT ANYONE FROM THE CREATION-OK
YOU HAVE TO DO ISTHAKHARA FOR YOURSELF NOT ANYONE ELSE-IN THE MATTERS OF DOING SOMETHING NEW WHICH IS MNENTIONED ABOVE BY ABU ABDUL BARI-
YOU HAVE THE STOMACH PAIN YOU SEEK THE DOCTOR NOT SOMEONE ELSE AND.......
and tell me if I will have the .happiness of children?THIS IS SHEER ASTROLOGY YOU ARE ASKING FOR THIS TYPE OF QUESTION-
WHERE ARE YOU -I THINK STILL THE REAL TRUE-ISLAM HAS NOT REACHED YOU I THINK THEN ONLY THESE TYPE OF 2 MAJOR WRONGS ARE EXPECTED IN YOUR SEEKING THE ANSWERS-
PL BE CAREFUL THIS IS TOTALLY WRONG FOR A MUSLIM TO ACT......
SEEK THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH AND DONT EX[ECT MANKIND TO SOLVE YOUR DESIRE FOR A LIFE WITH CHILDREN NEITHER ANYONE IN THE WHOLE WROLD CAN COME TO YOUR RESCUE-
Such a belief assigns to creation some of Allaah's attributes with regard to the knowledge of the unseen and the future. Consequently, it destroys Tawheed alAsmaa was-Sifaat, and represents a form of Shirk in this aspect of Tawheed.
The ruling of Kufr includes, by analogy (Qiyaas), those who read the books and writings of fortune-tellers, listen to them on the radio or watch them on the T. V., as, these are the most common means used by 20th century fortune-tellers to spread their predictions.
Allaah clearly states in al-Qur'an that no one knows the unseen besides Him. Not even the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Allaah said: With Him are the keys to the unseen and none knows it except Him alone."
Then he told the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), "Say! I have no power to bring good to myself nor avert harm but it is only as Allah wills. If it were that I knew the unseen, I would have multiplied the good and no evil would have touched me."
And he also said: "Say! None in the heavens nor the earth knows the 'unseen except Allah'."
Therefore, all the various methods used around the world by oracles, fortune-tellers, and the likes, are forbidden to Muslims.
Asalama aleykum my dear sister. I understand your pain and what you are going through. I myself didn't concieve my first child until 3 year after my marriage. I will tell you one thing every child has time they are supposed to arrive and only then will they come. I have one good advice for you which worked for me Alhamdulilaah read this du'aa in every sujuud and whenever you can. Sincerely say Rabi Hablii Minladunka Duriyatan DHayibatan Inaka Anta Sami'ul Du'aa. Insha Allah you will be blessed with the child you desire. Du'aa is powerful weapon that Allah has given us. Best of luck sister.
Sister,
Four years is a long time not to conceive. Go see a fertility specialist. They can do testing to determine where the problem lies. I also did not conceive for a time once I married. I saw a specialist and was pregnant within months. It really depends what is going on. The problem can lie with you or your husband but you will never know unless you seek medical help. Best of luck to you.
Salam
Asa sis, go to the dr... My sister didnt conceive for five years she had a vit d deficiency she took the vitamins and as soon as she got within normal range she was pregnant. Also they had to remove a cust at her ovary that was blocking
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I have been married since four years but no baby yet. Plz tell me any solution for this.i have a high fsh . I have low eggs reserve plz give me any treatment.
i hve no chlid .i have 4 year marrige but not concive .i hve lot of medicn.but not concive plz do istikhra and tel me how many chlid in my destiny..am worried about this ..why i hve no child
Ask Allah to grant you a child. Recite these Aya from the Quran.
"My Rabb, grant me a child from the righteous. (Surah As-Saffaat, verse 100).
O my Allah. Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. (Surah Furqan, verse 74).
Just keep making a lot of Dua.
Istikhara is a way to ask Allah for guidance for something you are not sure of, but in this case, you want a child so I think its most appropriate to ask Allah directly by making dua. No one can truly benefit you or respond to your dua besides Allah and whatever happens to you, it has been decided by Allah. So put your trust in Allah alone.
Salam. My husband and I know what's the problem and the only thing for us to have surgery. My husbnad has to carry out surgery. But today, my father in law asks me to do istakahara to seek guidance from Allah. He says, if this thing has Allah's will then only you should pursue. I want to ask you all? His intentions are good for us. But if the istakhara didn't go well then we both should stop thinking about the baby then. Is that what it means! They are his parents. I am sure they are concerned about their son. They just can't see their son to go for expensive surgery. So, they have put everything on me. Isn't it a controlling element from their part?