Islamic marriage advice and family advice

No communication with my husband!

Payphone hanging off the hook

Assalam walekum, I need some advice for due with my husband. It has been 7 months of my marriage, and my husbands and my relationship has completely gone apart. He was never like that. There is no communication, like barely any communication between us sometimes, and thats what creates fights. I am very worried, I have tried every way possible to talk with him.

He leaves the house for 1-2 hours, doesn't tell me where he's going, completely disappears, and then says oh I was waiting for a friends phone call. I was thinking you don't wait outside the house for friends phone call for 1-2 hours driving on the road. His friend called me.. asking for him coz my husband was not answering his phone.

A couple of weird situations has been happening lately. I know he wouldn't cheat, because he has already cheated once on me and begged me to the oath of his life that he would never cheat again. Usually he tells me where he's going, but a couple of previous times..its been different. I get worried.

The Love between us has also lessened. Please give me some dua to recite for love between my husband and I. Allah haafiz.

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  1. I pray that this is an obstacle in your marriage which you need to overcome together and when you do inshallah, your marriage will be stronger. Inshallah you are given eternal happiness and you have the strength, courage and paitence to overcome this. The key to happiness is prayer. Turn to Allah and remmeber him in your time off need and inshallah your prayers will be answered Ameen x

  2. Wa alaykum assalam sister. Why don't you just ask him about it instead of being worried? If he doesn't want to tell you or talk to you, you need to ask somebody in the family, maybe your parents to talk to him or the imam. Also you said he already cheated on you once, so what makes you think he wouldn't do it again????? Just because he took an oath doesn't mean he wouldn't cheat again. People do make promises all the time but they still continue to cheat, to a lot of people taking an oath doesn't matter at all,they just say it to safe themselves! If he did truly regret what he did, he wouldn't be treating you like that, he would actually put effort into your marriage and try to make you happy which he doesn't. ...

    you are only married for 7 month and he already cheated on you and is behaving like that. Please don't get pregnant until you don't find out if you choose to continue this marriage.

  3. OP: I know he wouldn't cheat, because he has already cheated once on me and begged me to the oath of his life that he would never cheat again. Usually he tells me where he's going, but a couple of previous times..its been different. I get worried.

    Well these oaths means nothing to people who are habitual liars. Oath of his life does not mean some thing is going to happen to him if he lies.

    How is your sexual relationship with him? In 7 months of your married life, he already cheated once?

    There may be a way to track him by tracking his cell phone.

    Fighting and arguing is not going to change him ............. .GPS Phone Tracking Pro uses GPS coordinates and state-of-the-art GPS location data to report the real-time whereabouts of your friends.

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