His family won’t accept me, now he’s avoiding me
I´m in love since from last three years we did a mistake we had crossed some limitation, we love each other very much want to marry each other and very confident about him that he will be with me till my last breath. But everything changed when we disclosed this to our family. My parents accepted everything want to step forward, but his parents don't agree with him because they think we are not of their status or he could get a much better family, even though we both are Muslim, well educated, well settled and understanding.
My family accepted him as he is but his family is not supporting him. He is very confused. Now am feeling he is avoiding me, mostly talking about work and other things, seems very proactive towards me my feeling, seems another person. I can´t marry with someone else, what should I do please? suggest me.
-lilo
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As salamu alaykum, sister lilo,
Dating and what you have done is haram, do you know you should repent from Heart and stop contact with this man? I have said this many times and everytime I say it is more painful than the previous time. Sister, you have been doing wrong this last three years and now you are paying for it, you are in love and his family doesn´t want you. There is no way to avoid suffering when we have done wrong. You should do tawbah(you have a link on top of the page), pray you salat, make dua and read the Quran.
To guess, to suppose is not a good idea, you have already given three years of your life, now time to move on, he wants to marry or not, involve your family and his family and talk for sure, this way you will know what to do.
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