Islamic marriage advice and family advice

My husband thinks I did porn as a teenager

Mental illness symptoms.

Some symptoms of mental illness.

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Hola, creo que mi marido tiene waswas porque llevamos mas de 3 años casados pero ahora estamos separados (no divorciados) aun.

El problema el lo tubo cuando empezo a imaginarme en videos pornográficos y diiciendome que era yo cuanado tenia 16 años. Me amenazaba con matarme ... decia escucharme en esos.videos escuchar mi voz.

Empezo a hacerse cuentas falsas de Facebook y entrar con mis viejas amistades y decirles que era yo para sacarles la.lengua .decia que el hombre que salia en esos videos se llamaba komo el. Muchas cosas que no tenian sentido .yo no entendia nada la verdad.

El empezaba ablar con primos mios por Facebook haciendose pasar por mi y diciendoles que si se acirdaban cuando les besaba, abrazaba o asi a cosas con ellos raras.

Veis esto normal? ¿Tiene cura?

TRANSLATION:

Hello, I think my husband has waswas because we have been married for more than 3 years but now we are separated (not divorced) yet.

The problem he had when he began to imagine seeing me in pornographic videos and said that it was me when I was 16 years old. He threatened to kill me ... he claimed to hear me in those videos (hear my voice).

He started to make fake Facebook accounts and go to my old friends and tell them it was me, to get their tongues out (get them talking). He said that the man who appeared in those videos was called komo el. Many things that did not make sense. I did not understand at all, really.

He started talking to cousins of mine on Facebook pretending to be me and telling them that if they acirdaban (Editor: ?) when he kissed them, he hugged or so strange things with them.

(Editor: It sounds like she is saying he pretended to be her to find out if she ever had physical contact with her cousins).

Do you see this normal? Does it have a cure?

- Hanan


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4 Responses »

  1. No .This is not normal .
    You should not tolerate his behaviour .This is unacceptable

  2. This guy is not good for you. He is crazy making up bad accusations about you and being too excessive to destroy when there is no evidence. Not a man of good character and doesn’t not know how to treat a lady.

  3. OP:The problem he had when he began to imagine seeing me in pornographic videos and said that it was me when I was 16 years old. He threatened to kill me ... he claimed to hear me in those videos (hear my voice

    Is he watching porn videos or just imgining you seeing in porn videos? Is he hearing voices? If he is watching porn why he is doing that?

    • Asalamualaykum Sister Hanan,

      Your husband sounds like he is experiencing psychotic symptoms. He is delusional and is believing these delusions to be reality. He sounds like he needs help, but based on the way he is accusing you (which must hurt a lot), you may or may not want to be the one to take on the responsibility of getting him the help he needs. It depends on what your goals are. Do you want to stay with him? Is his potential illness something that really scares you?

      Nor

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