Please give me a swalath to break this engagement
Assalamu aliakkum.
I am 26 year old muslim boy, I got engaged with a girl last week. But I don't want to marry her. Because of family pushing I am engaged with her. I already told to my father and mother I don't want to marry that girl. What they are telling me is that we cannot cancel this from our side. If the other family decide this marriage is not going to happen, then it's ok.
So I want to cancel this marriage. And also it should have to be cancelled from that side. If I marry that girl I cannot satisfy her with love. So it needs to be cancelled from their side because of any issue. In Islamic is there any swalath or something to we have recite for cancelling this marriage? So please tell me the swalath to recite to cancel this one...?? Please...
shabusheju
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Assalaamualaikam
Firstly, consider what is causing you to feel that you don't want to marry her. If she is pious and of good character, then you should consider whether you could be happy with her. Sometimes, people can feel anxious after agreeing to marry, and think "maybe I shouldn't" - but this can resolve itself once people calm down and think about the reasons that made them say "yes" to the proposal. Take some time to think about whether you want to marry her or not, and pray istikhara (read the articles on this site for information on this). If you decide that you want to marry her, then go ahead. If you decide that you definitely don't want to, then you don't have to - Islam doesn't condone forced marriage, and both the bride and groom need to consent for a valid marriage.
If you don't want to marry this girl, then you will need to break things off yourself. There may be arguments and hurt feelings, but it's really the only way to end this engagement if that's what you choose. Speak with your parents and firmly but respectfully explain that you are not going to marry her - explain your reasoning and the efforts you have gone to in order to make sure you were making the right decision for you.
Midnightmoon
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OP: If I marry that girl I cannot satisfy her with love.
What exactly do you mean "I can't satisfy her with love"?
Do you mean you won't be able to satisfy her sexually? Your fear may be unrealistic expectation from yourself. Talk to a counsellor or physician.
My case is somewhat similar but I'm a girl :/
Admins I'm really sorry if i am annoying you guys but i don't know where else to contact you guys thats why I am commenting here.
Its been almost 2 months since i posted my question and I am desperately waiting to get an answer.
How long does it take for a question to get posted?
My bf is getting married to a girl and he doesn't like her.
He is forced by his father ti get engaged and is getting engaged on 28 april
Can i break his engagement please.