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Is my marriage valid/halal in the eyes of Allah?

Posted by • September 24, 2011 • Printer-friendly

 

halal or haram?

Hi,

I would like to seek an advice regarding my situation. I am christian and now married with a Muslim man. However we are not sure if our marriage was blessed by Allah? I was married before in my country Philippines. We don't have any thing such as divorce in Philippines, however we have are  annulled. We are already separated and no more communication for 3years. When I decided to get married again, I tried to contact my ex-husband to ask for an annulment but he refused to cooperate. He told me that I have to pay so much money to them, because before we had a business and got bankcrupt. The bank filed a case against him and what my ex husband have told me is that I have to settle the bank problem first for my ex husband to be free from the case that has been filed against him. Any way, that is the reason that's why his family and him doesn't want to cooperate with our annulment. My ex-husband already have his new family.

Since, my ex-husband doesn't want to cooperate with me, me and my fiance here in dubai found a way to be married. However, I am still trying to get annulment but it will take years. After we got married, a lot of my husband's friend told him that our marriage wasn't blessed by allah.

Now the questions are; is it true that our marriage will not be blessed by Allah? Is there a way for our marriage to be accepted in the eyes of  Allah?

In addition to this, pleases note that I am willing to convert to Islam and become Muslim with whole my heart and soul.

Hope you can give an advice.

Thank you in advance.

Kristine

3 Responses »

  1. SisterZ
    September 24, 2011 • 12:51 am

    Dear Kristine, Salaams,

    I understand you are going through a difficult time due to this confusion and question that has arisen over the validity of your current marriage.

    I would like to offer you some words of comfort but due to my limited knowledge, all I can say is that I am sure that Allah will not punish you or your husband for something that you were unaware of or that you did not intentionally do wrong.

    We are not qualified to offer advice on any fiqh related matters pertaining to marriage and divorce. Hence I will strongly suggest you and your husband take all your information to a qualified Imam/Mufti and consult your case with him. InshaAllah he will advise you according to the Quran and Sunnah.

    SisterZ
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

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  2. Mohd
    September 24, 2011 • 3:17 pm

    Peace be unto u sister christine. . . . . . . I know of one possibility that ur marriage will be accepted and blessed in d site of Allah. . . . . . U know in islam, marriage is not allowed between a muslim woman and a non muslim man but the vice vasa is allowed. . . . . . Now had it being u are still with ur ex husband and u willingly converted to islam , two things are involved. Is either he also willingly accept islam, or ur marriage becomes null and void. . . In an identical manner, by the time u revert to islam ur marriage with ur ex is authomatically cancelled if he (ur ex) didnt revert too. . And then u will be free to be with ur husband . . . Hope this helps

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  3. Mahammed
    May 3, 2015 • 5:42 am

    Hi,i wana love my wife more than anything but i feel iam far away from her please send me dua to attach her like before.

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