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Hi Everyone,

I could really use some help here since I am extremely heartbroken and in disbelief.  We are a southern Balkan European Muslim couple. My wife was born and raised here her whole life and pretty religious.  I am born in the U.S. but my parents are from the same country as my wife. I am not quite as religious as my wife, but her pure heart and soul had got me wanting to be more.

So me and my wife had been doing amazing with no issues whatsoever. We got along super well. We were talking every day from the day we first start messaging. I came to her country to visit her and we got engaged, after which I went back to the U.S. for a month. When I returned to her, we got married with an Imam immediately.

We have also had good communication with each other and she knew everything about me, as I did about her. About three weeks after us getting married, she found a "tiny Quran" as she called it. It could be black magic type of thing. We did not touch it. Either way, we shortly moved into our apartment together. We were both excited to start our new lives together. I got a job close by as well.

Well, about three weeks ago, she made the decision to move out behind my back and packed everything out of my parents' house and left! I had noticed something was off the week before, all week, but she would not tell me what it was. We'd always had an understanding among ourselves that we would talk about everything, but this didn't happen.

Upon inquiry, she said she left because she can't handle me being epileptic even though I am perfectly fine to live a normal life and take medication for my condition regularly. Besides that, she's known about it from day one and it's never been an issue!

She does not want to talk about it and says she found out everything from Google that she needs to know. She doesn't want to listen to me or even want to hear anything. I saw her two days after she left and she didn't look like herself whatsoever. She looked scared and in fear.  Now I'm wondering if there could be some black magic going on here, even though I've never believed in it, really. But her having found that little Quran really has me wondering since she is not herself, even with her own family!

I am losing sleep over her and my mind is on her 24/7. I have had one of my Muslim friends get me into praying and have been praying every day since then. I am just super worried because everything just happened at once and I don't know what else I can do! This woman means the world to me!

Would love some advice and prayers over this!

Sam