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I was so angry I gave my wife 3rd talaq – where do we stand?

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Respectfully I would like to ask the following question. The situation is that my wife has a very bad temperament & abusive nature. She uses bad words daily for me & both children. For the last one year she is chatting & talking to a 12 year younger guy on mobile daily. She told me that she likes him but never met him, for her it is not a sin sharing my personal matters of our home also some time adult comments with each others. Whenever I go to sleep in night or went to my job she contacts him . She fights with me if I indirectly stop her to doing so. Her fights, abuse and bad words have tortured me and changed me to be short tempered, that I remain awake at night to see her doing this …… I have also become short tempered in that I get rage easily and start shouting.

Last year she called me a few very bad words I say to her " I give you ta.…. " but we console again . She promised not to fight but continued to use bad words. One day in Dec in evening I caught her speaking to that guy on mobile but she lied & said I am not talking to that . I said to her "If you have contacted or chatting with that guy not stopping I give you t…...." . Now she accept doing so. She swear on Quran that she will not contact that person again . but she broke it again. She started keeping me away from me last three months …… she keep chatting & contacting herself with that guy . As she talked to him she fights with me more . On 28 sep she shouted and abused me for about me for 15 min but I told her to stop it but she continued still I don’t say any thing other than go away. She then asked forgiveness and I forgave her . On 30 Sep again my wife started fighting. I requested her to stop but she continued abusing me saying I am a cheap person, using abusive words. In evening she started to use abuse words and insulting me again in loud voice & continued shouting on me. I lost my temper & sense, become in full rage, don’t know what I am doing. I said " I give you Ta…. If you don’t stop abusing me ".

QUESTION :- I swear that these words which I spoke were unintended in full anger. If a wife was insulting her husband (which she is accepting now), fueling the anger, if a husband gave her talaq will it stand or not? I like to ask where we stand in marriage according to Islamic teachings. We have two children - one 16 year old boy and one 11 year old girl. Please answer I am worried.

humaira ishaque


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  1. ASSALAMALAIKUM-.......45174-Fiqh of the family » Divorce.
    Ruling on divorce at a moment of anger-
    A Muslim woman says that her husband has often said, in moments of intense anger, “You are divorced.” What is the ruling on that, especially as they have children?.
    Praise be to Allaah.
    Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked about a man whose wife treats him badly and insults him, so he divorced her at a moment of anger. He replied:
    If you uttered the words of divorce at a moment of intense anger and without realizing it, and you could not control yourself, because of her bad words and insults etc., and you did that at a moment of intense anger and without realizing it, and she acknowledges that, or you have a witness of good character, then divorce has not taken place, because the shar’i evidence indicates that divorce does not take place if the words are spoken at a moment of intense anger – and if it is accompanied by not realizing what is happening then the ruling applies even more so.
    For example, Ahmad, Abu Dawood and Ibn Maajah narrated from ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no divorce and no manumission in the event of ighlaaq.” The majority of scholars said that ighlaaq means compulsion or anger, i.e., intense anger. For his anger made him unaware of what he was saying, so he is like one who is unconscious, insane or drunk, because of the intensity of his anger. So divorce does not take place in this instance. If he does not realize what he is doing and cannot control his words or actions because of the intensity of his anger, then divorce does not take place.
    Anger may be of three types:
    1 – WHEN A PERSON IS ANGRY AND IS NO LONGER AWARE OF WHAT HE IS DOING THEN HE IS LIKENED AS INSANE.SO DIVORCE DOES NOT TAKE PLACE ACCORDING TO SCHOLARS.
    2 – Where a person is very angry but is still aware of what is going on, but his anger is so intense that it makes him say the words of divorce. In this case too, divorce does not take place according to the correct scholarly opinion.
    3 – The ordinary type of anger which is not very intense. In this case, divorce takes place, according to all the scholars.
    From Fataawa al-Talaaq, pp. 19-21, compiled by Dr. ‘Abd-Allaah al-Tayyaar and Muhammad al-Moosa.
    What the Shaykh mentioned about the second type of anger is also the view favoured by Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah and his student Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on them both). Ibn al-Qayyim wrote an essay on that entitled Ighaathat al-Lahfaan fi Hukm Talaaq al-Ghadbaan, in which he said the following:
    Anger is of three types:
    1 – That which is not so intense as to affect a person’s mind or rational thinking; he knows what he is saying and what he means. There is no dispute that in this case divorce, manumission and contracts are valid.
    2 – WHERE HIS ANGER REACHES SUCH A LIMIT THAT HE NO LONGER KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING OR SAYING.THERE IS NO DISPUTE THAT IN HIS ANGER IF HIS ANGER IS SO INTENSE THAT HE DOES NOT WHAT HE IS SAYING ,THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT NONE OF HIS WORDS CAN BE IMPLEMENTED IN THIS CASE-
    The words of the mukallif (adult of sound mind) are only to be implemented if he knows what he is saying and what it means, and if the speaker really means that.
    3 – The kind of anger that falls between the two categories mentioned above, where the anger goes beyond the ordinary level but not so far as to make him behave like a madman. This is an area of scholarly differences of opinion. The shar’i evidence indicates that divorce, manumission and contracts in such cases are not valid, and this is a kind of ighlaaq as the imams explained. From Mataalib Ooli al-Nuha, 5/323; see also Zaad al-Ma’aad, 5/215.
    The husband has to fear Allaah and avoid using the word of divorce (talaaq) so that this will not lead to the disintegration of his family.
    We advise husband and wife alike to fear Allaah and heed His limits, and to look at what the husband said to his wife in a fair manner: is this the ordinary kind of anger, which is the only case in which divorce can take place, and this is the third type in which divorce does take place according to scholarly consensus. They should be cautious and not transgress the limits of their religion, and they should not let the fact that they have children make them describe the husband’s anger at the time he spoke the words of divorce to the mufti as intense so as to get the fatwa they want, even though both parties know that this was not the case.
    Based on this, the fact that the couple have children together should motivate them to avoid using the words of divorce recklessly; it should not cause them to try to find a loophole in the shar’i rulings after divorce has taken place and look for a way out or seek concessions from the fuqaha’ with regard to that.
    We ask Allaah to bless us all with understanding of His religion and help us to venerate His laws.And Allaah knows best.Islam Q&A
    AND YOU HAVE TO TAKE SOME STEP BEHIND YR WIFES BACK AND LODGE A COMPLAINT AND SEE THAT THE PERSON WHO IS BEHIND THE SCENE AND MAKING YR LIFE YR WIFE BOTH A PAIN IN THE NECK 1ST HE MUST BE FIXED WITH A STRONG HAND THROUGH LAW S THAT YOU DONT COME INOT THE PICTURE AS THE CALL RECORDS CAN SHOW HIS MISCHIEF PLSW TALK TO SOME LAWYER SO THAS HE CAN TALK TO SOME POLICE OFFICER SO THAT YR WIFE DONT KNOW YR INVOLVMENT NOR TH HIDDEN PERSON WHO IS PLAYING HOUSE BREAKER-
    THAT PERSON-IF HE IS FIXED IN PROPER MANNER THEN YR WIFE WILL LOOSE CONTACT AND SHE WILL GRADUALLY BECOME NORMAL AND CONCENTRATE UPON YR HOUSE/LIFE AND CHILDREN
    HOPE THIS ADVICE WILL BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY AS THERE IS NO OTHER ALTERNATIVE IN VIEW-
    REGARDS
    AND ONE MORE THING DONT RUN BEHIND THESE SPEUDO SUB CONTINENT SCHOLARS THEY WILL SAY JKINGLY ALSO YOU TELL ONE OR SMS OR SAY IT FROM FAR AWAY PLACE TO SOMEONE ELSE AND WIFE DIDNT HEAR YOU UTTER ALSO SHE BECOMES STRANGER AND HARAM FOR YOU-
    THESE SCHOLARS ARE HOUSE BREAKERS WHOSE VICTIMS ARE SUFFERING IN DANCE BARS AND CLUBS ALL OVER INDIA PAK ETC-
    AND AFTER DEVASTATING THEIR LIVES THESE SCHOLASR HAVE COLLECTED GOOD AMMOUNTS AND SLEEPING A/CONDITIONED ROOMS AND BEDS -SO NEVER MAKE THE MISTAKE TO ASK THEM ABOUT YR DIVORCE CASE OK OR ELSE YR WIFE ALSO WILL BE IN SOME DANCE BAR AFTER IDDAH-IN DELHI BOMBAY OR CALCUTTA-
    REGARDS

  2. I agree with Ali's comment about sub continental scholars. Someone scholar may even suggest you to remarry your wife after getting halala done by him.

    I saw this video on youtube about a Pakistani Imam who divorced and remarried his wife 5-6 times. Every time before remarrying her he made her do halala with a friend of his.

    • WHAT IS HALALA
      HALALA MEANS THE DIVORCED WOMAN MARRIES ANOTHER MAN NATURALLY-
      AND CONSUMATES THE MARRIAGE WITH HIM...AND THEN HE EITHER DIES NATURALLY OR DIVORCES HER DUE TO NATURAL REASONS OR DISPUTE,
      SHE THEN BECOMES FREE TO MARRY HER FIRST HUSBAND[AFTER IDDA PERIOD 4 MONTHS & 10 DAYS]
      CONTRACT KILLERS ARE-ARRANGED IN MURDERS AND THE WOMAN IS THE VIDEO WAS KILLED WHOLE SOME ONLY HER BREATH IS LEFT IN TH BODY THIS IS THE RESULT OF DEVIATIONS FROM ISLAM AND MAKING SECTS AND THE LEADERS/CULPRITS ARE THE 5TH HIJRI-TAQLEED GROUP WHO CHANGED ISLAM FROM PURE TO IMPURE AND MADE HAVOC IN THE LIVES OF THE INNOCENT UMMAH IN THE SUB- CONTINENT AND TODAY THEIR MARKET HAS INCREASED THE IMAM OF A MOSQUE-IN OUR CITY OF 45 YEARS TOOK RS-50,000-[PLUS COST OF HALAL HONEY MOONS]AND TOOK A GIRL OF 24 YEARS TO A HILLSTATION FOR ONE WEEK RETURNED BACK AND GVE TALAQ-AND THIS IS BEEN DONE BY THE DEOBAND/TABLIGHI& BARELVIS DAY AND NIGHT BECAUSE THEY DECLARE TALAQ IN ONE SITTING OR SMS OR SKYPE TYPED MSG-TIMES OF INDIA REPORTS PLS READ AND REVERT BACK TO THE ORIGINAL ISLAM OF 1ST 3 GENERTIONS-
      http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2010-10-27/lucknow/28230688_1_talaq-three-times-dar-ul-ifta-iddat-period
      http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2009-01-07/india/28020846_1_talaq-three-times-hanafi-sect-dar-ul-ifta
      http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2010-11-15/india/28264140_1_talaq-fatwa-department-deoband
      SO THE HADEES SAYS-WARSN US-Prophet Muhammad (saw) said,
      "Whoever among you live (for long time) will see many difference, I URGE YOU TO FOLLOW MY SUNNAH & THE WAY OF THE RIGHTLY GUIDED KHALEEFAS who come after me. Hold on to it firmly. Beware of newly invented matters, for EVERY innovation is going astray." [Ahmad 4/126, Tirmidhee 2676]

      HUSBAND ARRANGED BEFORE HAND TO GIVE WIFE- TALAQ SO THAT THE WOMAN CAN RE-MARRY HER FIRST HUSBAND A CONDITIONAL MARRIAGE[ARRANGING A HUSBAND] TO MARRY AND DIVORCE HER FOR RE-MARRIAGE IS HARAM IN ISLAM.

      THE ABOVE DECLARE TYPE OF MARRIAGE IS EXTREMELY DISLIKED IN SHARIAH.THIS ARRANGEMENT IS CONSIDERED ACCURSED IN HADEES[RADD-AL MUHTAR 2:540/DARSE TIRMIDHI] VOL-3-PAGE 399.

      THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH SALAHUALAHU-ALAIHIWASALAM SAID"ALLAH CURSES THE ONE WHO MARRIES TO MAKE A WOMAN HALAL FOR HER HUSBAND THE ONE WHOM THIS IS DONE FOR [BOTH]AHMAD,NASAI,TIRMIDHI] THIS COURSE OF ACTION IS SEVERELY PROHIBITED....

  3. Assalam O Alaikum brother,
    First and foremost, I must inform you that none of us here is qualified in Fiqh to rule whether divorce took place or not however what is obvious is that you both have some serious issues which need immediate attention.

    Another issue along with your wife's anger is her talking to this other man as you say. You need to find out, why is she talking to him? How long they have been talking, were they in relationship before marriage and wanted to get married but couldn't for some reason? Is anything missing in your relationship that your wife is trying to find that outside of marriage? Are you giving her enough attention? Are you loving, caring and provide for her needs; physical, emotional and material? I don't know whether her talking to this other man is main reason for your feuds but if there is something else then you both need to work on those. Having said that, speak to your wife calmly that it's never OK to talk to a stranger whether single or married romantically let alone share the details of your relationships.

    There are men out there who take advantage of single/married/widowed/divorced women. Most of the times these women are not getting enough attention, love and care from their respective family members (Parents/Husband/Siblings etc) as well as some other issues such as difficulty in getting married and many other times women seek too much unnecessary attention which gets them in trouble often.

    May Allah (swt) make it easy for you both to solve problems in your marriage. Amin.

    Muhammad1982,
    IslamicAnswers.com, Editor.

    • Guy has mentioned she has been chatting for one year. They have 2 kids 11 years old daughter and a 16 year old son. chat certainly leads to web camming and meetings. Her son may even be disappointed that her mom is involved with someone.on the Internet. She is not being a good role model for kids.

      Usually men seek younger women for friendship and if they are married they don't do things openly.

  4. Assalam alaikum Br.,

    I can suggest that you watch this video by Dr. Zakir Naik:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYkxR1JLFyI

    There are other videos he has done and one of which is in urdu, but I couldn't seem to find it. It went into a lot of details.

    After watching these videos I would suggest that you talk to a local imam and receive consultation regarding this matter.

    May Allah ease your pain and difficulties in this matter inn shaa Allah, Ameen.

    • Assalamalaikum,
      After many years i have just come across the famous zawaj.com & my reply
      In that reg:-talaq in anger....
      I would like to reply to sana if she can read.
      That the local imamz all over sub continent are deobandis&barelvis.the pioneers&masters of
      Of innovative 3 talaqs in 1 sitting who have done rapes in the name of islam.by contracting halala which nabi salalahualaihiwasalam named it as ZANI AND THESE LOCAL IMAMS ARE SPREAD ALLO OVER SO THERE IS NO CHANCE OF GETTING ANY RIGHT ADVICE OR DIRECTION REGARDS ALI YOUSUFF

  5. Salam,

    I don't know, if you are divorced or not, but she is chatting with someone else. This is a serious problem. I don't know a single reason, why she should stop chatting with him. She sweared on Quran and did it again. She will likely do again as long you don't catch her chatting.

    The question should be: Do you want to still live with such kind of wife?

    I know it's normal that each other use bad words sometimes but not often than that. Think about, if a counselor can help you out.

    You both seem to have a great communication problem. You should write her a love letter. But to be 100 percent honest with you... I personally would not be able to do, if I would know that my wife loves another man. This kind of disrespect would be my end.

    Is this chatting problem your only problem or there are other problems?

  6. Salam,

    Here is a interesting video about zina. Take a look.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8v-RYDKtkxM

    The man is right, we accept the sin. The Ummah should avoid watching movies with zina. But nearly all movies are containing zina.

  7. asalamu alaikum,

    I watched a programme by Muhammad Saleh from Egypt, he answers fiqh related questions, and someone called in and said he gave he's woman talaak 3 times. is it reversible? answer is no, now she is no longer your wife. even if you joke and say I divorce you, it counts. its very serious. ask your local fiqh council for advice.

    on a personal note, I don't think anyone would want to continue with someone who is chatting with another guy, even worse she doesn't want to make things right..

    ma salama..

    • ASSALAMALAIKUM-
      someone called in and said he gave he's woman talaak 3 times. is it reversible? answer is no, now she is no longer your wife. even if you joke and say I divorce you, it counts....PLS ASK THIS MR SALEH TO GIVE QURAN AND HADEES PROOF HE CANNOT GIVE AN THIS IS BECAUSE HE BELONGS TO HANAFI PSEUDO SECT WHICH MAKES MONEY IN THIS SUBJECT AND THEN TELLS THE NEXT STEP IS HALALA IF THEY WANT TO ARRANGE -THEY WILL MAKE WAY-THIS IS A DISEASE IN THE SUBCONTINENT AND EGYPT ALSO THIS ANSWER BASED IN THEIR OWN WHIMS AND FANCIES AND THAT IS EATING UP THE WHOLE UMMAH WHO FOLLOW AND DO BLIND TAQLEED LIKE MR SALEH OR ANY ONE FOR THAT MATTER-PLS ASK AND GET THE PROOF HE CANT GIVE QURAN OR HADEES PROOF THEN HIS ACAPCITY OR AOTHORITY WHATEVER U CALL IS INVALID
      PLS GET THE REPLY FROM I AM WAITING FOR THE SAME
      REGARDS
      ASK HIM TO GIVE PROOFS LIKE THIS NOT HIS FATWA WITHOUT PROOF-
      1]The legal rulings reported from the Companions in this regard are also in complete comformity with the Holy Prophet's injunctions. According to a tradition in Mu'watta, a person came to Hadrat 'Abdullah.bin Mas'ud and said: "I have pronounced eight divorces on my wife. Ibn Mas`ud asked: What legal opinion have you been given in this regard? He said: I have been told that the woman stands separated from me.
      2]Ibn Mas`ud said: The people have said the right thing: the legal position is the same as they have told you." 'Abdur Razzaq has related from 'Alqamah that a person said to Ibn Mas'ud: "I have pronounced 99 divorces on my wife He said: Three divorces separate her from you; the rest are (acts of sin) excesses.
      3]" Waki' bin al-Jarrah in his sunan has reported this very viewpoint of both Hadrat 'Uthman and Hadrat 'AIi. A person came to Hadrat `Uthman and said: "I have pronounced a thousand divorces on my wife-'. He replied: "She stood separated from you by three divorces."
      4]Another tradition, which also has been reported from Mujahid and related with a little variation in wording in mu'watta and Tefsir by Ibn Jarir, says: °A person pronounced a hundred divorces on his wife; then he asked Ibn 'Abbas for his opinion. He replied: 'By three divorces she stood separated from you. With the other 97 you made a Jest of the Revelations of Allah!"
      THERE ARE MANY PROOFS TO SHOW 3 TALAQS IN ONE SITTING IS NOT VALID -
      REGARDS

  8. FIRSTLY STOP TYPING IN CAPS, don't you know writing in CAPS is like shouting, rude and should be avoided. second he gives from Quran and sunnah, not hanafi as you state. also who said anything about giving talaak in one sitting? you have misunderstood, because I wrote 3 talaak, doesn't mean in one sitting..

    you wrote "BELONGS TO HANAFI PSEUDO SECT WHICH MAKES MONEY IN THIS SUBJECT AND THEN TELLS THE NEXT"? please don't assume things that you don't know. plus you not qualified to give a ruling.

    I wrote on my post to ask your countries fiqh council for advice.

    • ASSALAMALIKUM-
      THIS BLOCK LETTERS I HAVE TAKEN PERMISSION FROM THE FORUM PLS DONT WORRY-

      1]THE GREAT-EGYPTIAN-VERSION-BECAUSE SOMEONE MIGHT READ HERE AND GO HOME AND SEND BACK HIS WIFE U WILL BECOME RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT ACT SO BE CAREFUL WHEN U WRITE ANYTHING ABOUT TALAQ-

      2]A SALAFI MOSQUE OR SCHOLAR WILL GIVE THIS CORRECT REPLY[WITH PROOF OF [QURAN AND HADEES IN WRITTING]AND THE REGULAR COUNCILS AND MADRASSAS WHICH HAVE FLOURISHED BELONGING TO HANFIS AND THE DEOBANDIS-PLS ASK THE QUESTIONER WHICH COUNTRY HE LIVES HE WILL FIND MANY MANY BUSINESS CENTERS OF DEOBANDIS THERE-LIVING ON LYING FATWAS-

      3]I AM NOT GIVING ANY RULING- I AM EXPOSING THE WORLD THE VULTURES OF HALALA STATUS WHICH HAS SENT MILLIONS OF GIRLS HOME[YR SISTER HAS NOT BEEN A VICTIM I SUPPOSE]

      4]THE QUESTIONER IS TELLING[ I have also become short tempered in that I get rage easily and start shouting]ABOUT AN UNISLAMIC WAY OF TALAQ[NOT THE 3 STEPS OF 3 MONTHS KEEPING HER IN THE HOUSE FOR RE-CONCILLITION]I ANSWERED WITH FATWA OF TALAQ IN ANGER DETAILS-
      WHICH IS NEEDED HERE NOT THE EGYPTIANS VERSION-

      5]EGYPTIANS VERSION-IS MISGUIDING THE READERS HERE- he gave he's woman talaak 3 times. is it reversible? answer is no, now she is no longer your wife. even if you joke and say I divorce you,THIS STATEMENT HAS NO PROOF IN QURAN AND HADEES-BUT IN THE HANAFIS FIQH- FOR THAT ONLY I USED THE WORD HANFI PSEUDO SCHOLARS-DIDNT YOU READ THE FUN OF ISLAM THEY MADE-IN TIMES OF INDIA IN 3 LINKS I SENT-THAT 3 LINKS AND THE EGYPTIAN VERSION IS SAME-

      SO STOP TYPING DIRECTLY THE LINES LIKE SERIAL NO 5 EVERY-VERSION WHO HAVE OPENED SHOPS OF TALAQ AND HALALA-
      REGARDS

      • ASSALAMALIKUM
        DEAR MR AHMED-
        THAT IS WHAT I EXPLAINED IN THIS FORUM COME MANY DESTITUTE FOR SUPPORT AND-HOPE TO SURVIVE AND AT THAT TIME YR GOOD AUTHENTIC SENTENCES VIZ...

        I ONLY RELAYED WHAT I SAW,.....

        WILL BECOME DEVIATION.MISGUIDENCE AND CONFIRMATION OF THEIR ALREADY HEARD
        RUMOURS SPREAD BY THE THE PSEUDO SCHOLARS ON TALAQ-

        THAT IS WHAT I MEAT NO RELAY OF UNAUTHENTIC MATERIAL HERE-
        REGARDS

  9. YOU'R A FOOL.IM NOT GONNA WASTE MY TIME IN READING ALL YOUR LONG ESSAY.
    BUT I WANNA POINT OUT, WHAT DO YOU MEAN "U WILL BECOME RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT ACT SO BE CAREFUL WHEN U WRITE ANYTHING ABOUT TALAQ:? ONLY A FOOL WOULD READ AND ACT UPON WHAT UN-QUALIFIED PEOPLE SAY. VERIFY THE INFO FROM QUALIFIED IMAMS, ETC.

    IF YOU READ AND UNDERSTAND WHAT I FIRST WROTE THEN YOU CAN SEE THE DIFFRENCE, I ONLY RELAYED WHAT I SAW, I DOUBT YOU UNDERSTAND, THATS WHY I TOLD YOU TWICE, TO CONTACT YOUR FIQH COUNCIL FOR ADVICE? SO DONT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS.

    EVERY POSTER HAS A RIGHT TO POST, I DONT SEE WHY YOU NEED TO MAKE A DISCUSSION OUT OF IT, EGYPTIAN VERSION, WHATEVER THAT SUPPOSE TO BE. THERE IS A BLACK SHEEP IN EVERY COUNTRY, BUT YOU CANT LABEL THE COUNTRY AS A WHOLE.

  10. WHO ARE YOU TELLING ME WHAT I CAN AND CANNOT RELAY? IM TELLING FROM EXPERIENCE ON WHAT I SAW, SO MY ADVICE WAS, TO CONTACT YOUR FIQH COUNCIL FOR ADVICE?

    SO WHY ARE YOU JUST PICKING AND CHOOSING, WITHOUT READING ALL OF IT?

    • AsSalaamu Alaikum my Brothers,

      I don't know where/how this is going to end, but I think it should really end just right here, for the sake of Allah.

      May Allah soften our hearts and make us be compassionate among ourselves. Ameen!

      Jazaakumullahu khair

      • ASSALAMALAIKUM
        I WANT TO END BUT MR AHMED DOES NOT WANT TO AGREE TO HIS FAULT OF RELAY SERVICE HE DID ABOUT NULL AND VOID VERSION-
        THIS IS MY STAND SO I WANTED TO SAVE HIM FROM DELUSION-OF SCHOLARS-
        "The believers are nothing but brothers, so make peace between your two brothers and beware of Allah that perhaps you may be shown mercy." (Al-Hujaraat: 10)
        And, noble, indeed is the act of making peace and reconciling between two arguing parties. In fact,
        it is superior to voluntary fasting and sunnah and nafl prayer.

  11. About 3 and half months ago my son Mr. Waleed who was patient of depression in anger said to his cozen that he has divorced to his wife but he did not said that world directly to his wife. After that day he was admitted in a hospital and were treated for about 2 months. when he came back from hospital we asked him what he said that day and what was his intention then he replied that he did not remember the exact wording. Some Mufti says that now divorced happened and since Idat period is passed what new Nikah is must with new Meher and previous Meher which was "Endel al Talab" must be paid.

    You are requested to guide us in the light of Quran and Hadith
    JazakaAllah

    • Asad, was ha admitted into a mental hospital? The one who is not mentally sound is not held responsible for his actions. In any case, we are not muftis and cannot give you a straight "yes" or "no" answer. Perhaps the safest thing is to repeat the Nikah.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  12. hi me n my husband had a fight n I asked if u want to do that thing give me three talaqs n he just said 1 2 3 go away does it mean talaq he is saying I cant live withour u n I didnt said talaq? where do we stand?

    • AOA sister it is confirmed that three talaqs can not be given at one time if he have said it at a time no matter (it is count as one) there is a period of three month in which you can go near to your husband and if you do which is best choice then ALLAH will bless both of you "some alim said to give 10 people a healthy meal of day and night of give 10 people suit to wear will be a palenty charged" may ALLAH subhan-o-tala guide us all to the straight path amen

  13. I need to have Fatwa on divorce.

    May I have direct email on which I can communicate the happening.

    Please send your email at my above email so that I can send the request for advice on divorce.

    Thanks

    • Assalaamualaikam

      We are an advice website, not a fatwa service, and cannot issue any fatwas. Please contact your local mosque or community centre for help. If you would like advice you are welcome to submit a post for publication - the instructions on how to do so are available from the menu at the top of the page.

      Midnightmoon
      IslamicAnswers.com editor

    • Rahmat, we do not give fatwas, nor do we offer advice by email.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

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