Islamic marriage advice and family advice

I am worried about my future???

I am a 22 year old girl, currently I am studying in a university. In one year my university will be over and my parents will most likely get me married. But I am very worried about my future. Our conditions are not good, my siblings are in a better position (jobs) then I am. I am scared and recently I met a good person online, with good qualities for a husband, i am only scared of the people's characters, but this person seems to be of a good personality and background. Should I tell my parents about him or let it go? Can you please suggest dua for a good future, specially for girls. Please help.


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  1. Assalaamualaykum clay123,

    You can recite the dua of Istikhara after reading a 2-nafl Salat Al-Istikhara prayer. In the dua, you ask Allah to ease marriage to the brother if it's best for you, and to turn it away from you and provide what is good for you for in this life and the hereafter if it is not. You can find information on the dua in the blue menu at the top of the page under "Istikhara Questions and Answers."

    You can also recite a dua to find the best employment and settle you in a proper place with good facilities. It is as follows:

    "Wakathalika makannaliyoosufa fee alardi yatabawwao minnahaythu yashao nuseebu birahmatinaman nashao wala nudeeaau ajra almuhsineena"

    Inshallah these will help you gain clarity of mind and heart.



  2. Tell about him to ur parents and ask I think he is better for me ...
    Please tell am I right in that...
    First thing you must clear clarify such person gud or bad because it's marriage life not a game becareful ...
    Make a duwa ALLAH WILL HELP YOU

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