Is there black magic on us?
Black Magic
Assalam o alaikum
I am a teacher ,married 7 years ago with a person as banquet hall. We met only a few times in this period of time. 3 years before it has been known to my parents that I am in a relationship with a person. Since that we did not meet again. Our condition becomes rough daily as mind remains disturbed, body heavy, talking to each other harshly, no positive sense to compromise. So will you tell me is there any black magic on us?
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Assalamu'alaikum,
I have doubt regarding your post. You said: " We met only a few times in this period of time." but you said you married him. Did you marry secretly? If you did not have your Wali during Nikah, your marriage is invalid. If you had your Wali and witnesses then it is valid.
If latter is the case, why did you not meet him though you were married to him?
There is nothing unusual in your case to call it black magic. One must not suspect magic on every difficulty. They could be tests from Allah, too.
I believe what your relationship lacks is communication. You both must sit, talk and clarify things in order to communicate better. If you both remain silent and go on the same way, you maybe staying together but far away due to not communicating effectively.
May Allah Help you.
Abu Abdul Bari
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It sounds to me like you've just married someone you're incompatible with. Therefore all of the clashes. I don't believe it's black magic.
However I do not know what are exactly the symptoms that would help in confirming blackmagic but whatever they may be I don't think a forum like this one will b able able to give u a clear cut answer on that one. partly because (probably )the facts that u have given are inadequate and/or because no1 is an alim of that level over here to confirm or reject that assumption. So it would be best if you met a scholar of that caliber.
Ruqya is generally done to relieve those who are suffering from sihir, make sure you find yourself an honest alIm who would perform it on you if sihir is confirmed. The only way through which you can identify his genuineness is if he claims to perform Ruqya as a sadqa and not his business. Make sure you are accompanied with your mehram. Beware of those who charge money. they can not only fleece u but also scare u out of ur wits.
Your stressful marriage is more likely the reason behind your problems. Sort them first.
may Allah help you.
Assalamualaikum.
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