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I did zinaa and I feel dirty

Shame and guiltI did zina and am very upset with myself for doing it.

I feel worthless, bad, dirty, sorry for what I did.

What do I do with myself????????????

Please helpppp

- Abu-Fadi


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  1. Abu-Fadi, Asalaamualaikum,

    Allah, glorified be He, tells us in the Holy Qur'an: "Tell them (O Muhammad ): 'O My slaves who have wronged their souls, do not despair of Allah's mercy, for Allah will forgive all the sins. He is indeed very Forgiving, very Compassionate, Turn to Him then, and obey Him (in all your affairs).'" (Al-Zumar:53,54).

    You are feeling major regret for your actions, this is your first step towards Allah(swt).

    Now, turn to Allah wholeheatedly. Make sincere tawbah and sincere intention never to return to this sin again. Keep away from all things that influenced you to commit zina in the first place. Do your obligatory prayers and voluntary worship, i.e. pray salaah in the last 3rd of the night, talk to Allah asking Him(swt) to forgive you while you are in sujood, observe fasting, do dhikr, give sadaqah/zakah, do as many good deeds as you can. Allah will forgive you if you are sincere and has already assured you of this in the above ayah. He(swt) is the Most Compassionate and Most Merciful.

    Click on this link: http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/i-am-14-years-old-i-want-to-get-rid-of-my-sins/
    and scroll down to the advice given by 'tigereye468'. I think you will find it practical, comforting and very useful inshaAllah.

    Also see: http://www.deenislam.co.uk/demo/heart/Tawba_repentance_3.htm

    and

    http://www.deenislam.co.uk/demo/heart/Tawba_repentance_2.htm

    SisterZ

  2. subhan Allah

  3. Repent repent and repent. If u truly repent and do not use tis way again, Inshallah Allah is very merciful.

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