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Ejaculation without masturbation

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As salaamu alaikam

i am having this problem from 2-3 months which is shameful for me as whenever my private organ is erect it releases little fluid without the main act.

I am not sure if i can pray or no after little fluid has been removed since it cannot be considered the main act.

please can you help me with this issue and lemme know if i can pray after it or do i need to take a bath and do ghusl whenever this happens and also if its haraam or not.

Unknown96

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  1. See a doctor ( Urologist ) first. It might be some health related condition.

  2. Most likely it is pre-ejaculatory fluid .......a clear fluid that appears on the tip of the penis when a man has an erection and is sufficiently sexually excited......It is a normal thing

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-ejaculate

  3. As far as i have read, the fluid W/o ejaculation breaks your wudu and dosent need ghusl.

    the full act of ejaculation intentional or unintentional REQUIRES ghusl.
    just google this issue.

    http://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/15607

    Allah knows best.

  4. this is a question for people who consider masturbation a sin. I know there are some who think it is permissible under certain conditions but this is for people who consider it forbidden:

    are the thoughts people have when doing this sin going to be held to account?
    today (I did not touch myself) I was just having thoughts and stuff and I got and O. this happened three times today maybe. the only thing was that these thoughts were really really bad. like it had to do with kids and stuff...I feel horrible bc I brought them to mind out of nowhere and dwelled on it and got an O...I feel sick, I always have/always will consider rape to be a tremendous sin, I feel like a hyprocrite now. i cant believe i let myself have these thoughts that have to do with rape and stuff...so like are we judged on the thoughts themselves or the sin of masturbation in general?

    • Your thoughts what you described are dangerous and will come under child abuse .i suggest you to take help from doctor if get these thoughts again in future

    • Sister: today (I did not touch myself) I was just having thoughts and stuff and I got and O. this happened three times today maybe. the only thing was that these thoughts were really really bad. like it had to do with kids and stuff.

      You seem to be hyper-sexual for some reason. Why you fantasy kids? Are you scared of adult men?

      • No I'm not scared of men. I am intensely worried about this though. are we held accountable for such thoughts? I thought them all on purpose!!
        I did not touch myself but I was moving around while this was happening, leaning over, etc...idk if this is masturbation or not BUT the thoughts are what I feel guilty about... is it similar to rape what I did? cuz u know how masturbation is almost like zina so I feel like this is almost like rape.

        im just confused.

        • Yes you are accountable n sinfull for bringing such thoughts in your mind purposely .This is serious problem .you need to talk to psychateriast .

        • Masturbation is not like Zina. One thing common between these 2 may be sexual enjoyment and orgasm. What you did is not rape as it was your imagination providing you sexual stimulation to enhance your experience.

          I am really concerned. How old are you? How old are the kids? Who are these kids you thought about (relatives, friends)? What fantasy you had? No need to answer this question but may help if you go for counselling

          Do they live with you or are close to you for any reason. You should stay away from kids.

          • I don't think its a medical problem...I still don't think it can be forgiven, I feel so dirty

            it happened again today, I was getting sexual thoughts then out of nowhere I brought to mind a very bad one (like the ones I described above), but then I tried to distract myself from it by thinking of something else but ended up getting an O...I panicked because I feel like I will be held accountable :'(

        • Sister. We are not judged on our thoughts until a) we act upon them or b) we intentionally bring them into our minds and entertain them.
          These are two different levels to stop.. however do not worry yourself over things you will not be questioned for (islamically)

  5. i don't even know why my body is like this

    if i have a single thought, the slightest movement will giv me O
    i feel like this is unnatural, even when i am walking/ excercising and my legs rub together, i get the feeling
    i don't know if this is normal or not, and if my thoughts + feelings are sinful islamically

    but i am still panicking over what happened today (what i wrote in my comment before) am i accountable/sinful for it??

  6. Sister Please believe what I say. What you are saying and are worried about is a medical condition. This is OCD. And there is no need to freak out because every 1 out of 4 people has OCD. However OCD attacks different people in different ways. I know many people who think things like that, because of their OCD and they don't even know it. And their OCD won't even let them believe that they should not blame themselves. Even I have it on a minor level. .You need to understand that your OCD is making you think all these thoughts, and its not you. You have to fight against OCD as if it is your enemy because it is. It is making you think all these thoughts about children, and then makes you feel extreme guilt. And both of these things are not good for your mental health. If not treated, OCD can make you weak. So fight it back! You can either fight back yourself by not letting OCD control yourself again. Whenever you get the feeling to think about rape or children, ask Allah for Patienceand strength and imagine looking your OCD in the eyes and say, 'You can't control me, I won't let you control me. Stop playing with my head, stop playing with my life! I won't let you destroy me, because this time, I've asked Allah to help me, And you have NO POWER as compared to ALLAH, and Allah is here to help me.'
    When you start defeating OCD, you'll get stronger and stronger against it. Or you can see a doctor, It is hard i know, but don't be ashamed because these thoughts are not your fault! That is exactly what OCD is doing to you! making you feel too ashamed to see a doctor. Once when you are cured IA, you'll realize that those filthy thoughts were not a part of you. They will be gone just like diseases disappear after proper medication. Don't distrust Allah. He is our creator and knows us more than we do. If its OCD, Allah already knows it. He knows the best.
    Lots and Lots of love and wishes from a sister. May you come out of your situation like a warrior 🙂 Aameen.

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