Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Heartbroken and depressed.

Assalamualaikum, brothers and sisters.

I am a muslim convert alhamdulillah.

For this past 3 years, I fell in love a girl whom I dated for about a year. I knew everything about her and recently she told me she just lost a reason to love me anymore. Her character was great I loved the way she viewed life. We broke up once halfway however I prayed to Allah that if she's the one for me please open her heart to me. So, we got back together and yes. She broke up with me again and said she lost feelings and she wants me to disappear in her life. I feel confused and depressed as she was a great friend to me as well she always gave me life advices and letting go of her is such a hard task.

Currently, I feel depressed and I can't focus on my studies. I feel heartbroken and I always have anxiety attacks.

I do not know what to do any longer as I just want to continue being friends with her as it makes me happy.

Help, me I want to be happier but I'm just so depressed.

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  1. Brother,

    I'm sorry to hear what has happened to you with this woman. However, she does not want to be with you, and how she feels determines really whether you can be with her. That said, when a woman says she does not want you, you must absolutely believe she's telling the truth.

    Never be friends with someone you want or like when that person makes it clear that they don't wantyou. You will only subject yourself to emotional torture while that person lives their life while disrespecting you. Do the right thing by leaving her alone. At some poimt, when you feel better, try to meet other women.

  2. Waste of time....life will go on...My friend salam. Islamic sunni scholors say ....that shaitan likes to cause depression in people in general.But Muslims have a cure and that's the zikr ot Allah.Allah is the controller of hearts...make scence. IF YOU DONT PRAY 5 TIMES A DAY AND KEEP COMPANY TO MUSJID AND HAVE PRACTICING GODFEARING PEOPLE AROUND YOU....THEN NOBODY CAN SURVIVE THIS WORLD...ALLAH HAS CLEARLY EXPLAINED IN THE QURAN...WHAT IS A HUMANBEINGS PURPOSE HOW TO GET PEACE AND 100%SUCCESS IN BOTH WORLDS.LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE IT REQUIRES EFFORT..YOU CANT EXPECT TO ACHIEVE ANYTHING IF YOU DONT DO THE ACTIONS.INSHALLAH WE SHOULD NOT HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH ANY GIRL.SHAITAN WILL WHISPER AND PLAY WITH YOUR EMOTIONS ..HE WANTS YOU TO FALL .....SO SMARTEN UP..IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU NEED SEX..THEN GET MARRIED BUT I ADVICE YOU TO FOCUS ON CORRECTING YOUR BELIEFS .GETTING A GOOD EDUCATION AND A PIOUS WIFE..SO YOU PROGENY WILL SUCCEED AND PREPARE FOR THE WORST DAYS TO COME.

    THE DAJJAL!

  3. Love is over rated. Believe me if you ended up marrying her within months the complaints would start. Why bother. If only we could marry our self's, how easy life would be!

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