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Will Allah forgive me?

Woman alone

Assalamu alaikkum warahmathulla, im an 18 year old girl.I have done many sins throughout my life and im feeling guilty for it now.now im facing a great problem.from my childhood itself my cousin brother was using me.he forced me to do sinful acts.at times my mind also changed and I did whatever he said.1 year before his sister saw both of us doing something not good to see.from that moment I stopped doing those and started feeling guilty.but his sister is keeping distance from me and is not talking to me.when I asked for her forgivness sincerly she said that she will not forgive me.will allah forgive me?

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  1. Wallaykumassalaam Ayeshah,

    If your cousin forcibly did anything sexual to you at a tender age as you describe, that is child sexual molestation and rape. It certainly isn't something that you need forgiveness for. Please continue to stay away from your cousin and anything that reminds you of him. Also, don't worry about what his sister thinks of you...she is merely projecting blame onto you for something that is not your fault

    Inshallah you will gain some peace with time and live a beautiful rest of your life.

    Hugs,

    Nor

  2. Bismillah
    Ask Allah for forgiveness and ask you should try to make everything right with your sister.

  3. Actually, I don't think you wronged her, so if she doesn't want to forgive you, don't take it to heart.

    But the only one you should seek forgiveness from is Allah Almighty. He has created you, and to him, you shall return. And he clearly stated that we should turn to him in repentance. Allah forgives all sin as He mentioned the glorious Quran:

    But indeed, I am the Perpetual Forgiver of whoever repents and believes and does righteousness and then continues in guidance. (Quran 20:82)

    So sister Aayisha, however great your sins are, they are never greater than the mercy of Allah. All you need to do is to repent to him.

    But how do you repent to Allah? Here is how! just follow the link below to learn how exactly to do it.

    How to repent to Allah for forgiveness of All sins

    May Allah Almighty forgive us our sins.
    Jazakallah Khairan Katheeran.

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