I Loved Him, But I Realized He Wasn’t Correct; Now, He Threatens to Kidnap Me
"Give me your daughter or I'll Kidnap her"
AssalamuAlaikum my dear friends,
I just ended up reading all these posts when I tried to find out about what the punishment for suicide is bcz i personally want to do it..Im just fed up of everything in my life. Its one of the most common reason's..Love!! I loved someone and trusted him truly..
everything was normal until we had decided on approaching my dad..but before he could personally speak to my dad.. my dad had got to know from someone outside and he went through the whole matter on trying to find out his details with regard to his family and his personal details..
And that's when I came to know that he has been doing black magic for me and for my family in order to get me! This is when my heart and trust broke, I expected different problems but never in dreams that i had dreamt of something lyk dis happening to me. He has been doing so much behind me and i didn't even have the slightest idea..how could someone do this?
This is not love but what's my mistake? I trusted him and loved him..but now i cant trust anyone.. evry man i c reminds me of wat he has done to me and i think that i can't go ahead with my lyf further on..he has threatened my dad of kidnapping me and my parents are worried of even sending me outside!!
I can't even go to my college anymore.. it has been my dream to complete my degree.. but I have not been to college from the past two weeks and I don't think that I will b allowed to..
I just wonder when are people lyk them going to be punished from Allah..I feel that I'm being given the punishment for loving him but what about my family? They didn't do anything!! Now,every miniute im living with the fear that what would happen next!! I didnt deserve this na.. :'(
I cant live with this fear and guilt that my family has to suffer bcz of my mistake of falling in love with a person lyk him!!
I know that for sure that he will stoop to any level to get me..but I cant just take this anymore.......
~ safi
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As Salamu'alaikum,
Sister Safi, the first thing you should do is report him to the police. He would actually do more than just threaten.
I don't know if you have enough evidence to prove that he has been doing magic on you to love him. But there is something called "the magic of love" known as "Sihr al 'Atf" or "Tiwala". It is Shirk according to the scholars (according to a Hadith). So, be careful of accusation without evidence.
But if he is doing it, the protect yourself from it by reciting the Quran - Surah al Baqarah, Surah Ikhlaas, Surah Falaq, Surah an Naas, Aayah al Kursi and read the following books:
How to Protect yourself from Jinn and Shaitaan by Shaikh Waheed Abdussalam Baly
Jinn and Human Sickness by Shaikh Abdul Mundhir Khaleel bin Ibraheem Ameen
The Spiritual Cure from the works of many classical scholars.
This will help you lot insha Allah
And remember that all this is of no use, until Allah Wishes. So, pray to Him for cure.
Muhammad Waseem
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Salaams,
I agree with brother Waseem. You need to report him to the police for his threats of abducting you. You and your family shouldn't have to live in fear because of someone who is clearly potentially dangerous.
You also need to work on coming to peace with what's happened. There is a way forward, no matter how bad we've experienced something. Allah always guides us and provides us comfort, but we must submit in totality to Him.
Don't focus so much on his punishment or how awful people can be. For every person who tries to exploit others, there are many more who are truly caring, nice, and want only good for others. Try to look for them, and you will find them.
-Amy
IslamicAnswers.com Editor