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I masturbated and saw porn in Ramadan!

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I feel so horrible! I masturbated and saw porn during masturbation. I don't know what happened to come over me. I looked for some online and it said that it is broken if we ejaculate. I did ejaculate too but unintentionally. I'm so confused and I can't donate 600 Rs nor can I fast an extra day as I can't tell this to my family. Please help me and Ramadan Mubarak to all of you. I hope you all dont get into this problem.

M.Taha

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  1. Assalaamualaikam

    There are many reasons why someone may miss a day's fast, so it would be entirely possible for you to fast another day without it being obvious why. If asked, you could simply say that you missed a day's fast in Ramadan and need to make it up. People tend to be understanding about these things, as fasting can be really hard.

    Remember as well that fasting is about more than just not eating or drinking. We should be avoiding all haraam things, avoiding things which tempt us or distract us from focusing on our deen, and spending our time prioritising Islam in this blessed month. You definitely shouldn't be looking at porn. In fact, you shouldn't be looking at porn at any time.

    I'd advise you to put some strong parental controls onto your computer or whatever you use to access pornography. You can also make sure that you spend your free time praying or helping people in need, or with your family - keeping mentally and physically busy will inshaAllah mean that you're less likely to feel tempted to look at porn.

    Remember that Allah is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful. Pray tawbah, take steps to avoid repeating the sin, and trust in His Mercy.

    Midnightmoon
    IslamicAnswers.com editor

  2. This is a hard situation. Only way is you need to train your mind and cover your eyes. You heart will not be tempted if you don't see it. You might want to try to not think of things like this either and In Sha Allah it will be easier for you

  3. ohh brother what a loss.
    you have no idea how great is reward of this one day you spoiled. That is a BIG LOSS for you indeed brother. its like you have lost a treasure that worth millions of dollars for a stupid moments looking at nude pictures.

    Repent brother and say Asatghifirullah ( oh Allah forgive me for I have sinned) ... say as much as you can, say it until you feel it in your heart, say until you get peace in your heart.

    what you need to do is start fasting or pay the money. If you cannot afford it now, consult some scholars.

    May Allah help you

  4. pls help me. i am 16 yrs old female student. i think ALLAH will fail me in my finals bcoz of the sin i did today

    i never thought i would do such a thing, i always told myself i wld nvr go near this sin. it is pornography.

    i started out innocent searching 4 enema vids meaning only rear side is showing, when i went on the websites it showed much more than what the link title said it wld (it literally just said 'enema vids' so i thought only that part of the body would show) but i saw EVERYTHING. To make things worse, when i was scrolling thru the page quickly and saw that it wasnt what i searched for, i looked at the images i was scrolling thru a few times back and forth before shutting it off. i have been addicting to masturbation and looking at 'suggestive' images, but never ever actual photos of naked people.

    i am so ashamed my parents will murder me. i have done the worst sin possible. pls someone help me. ALLAH (SWT) will fail my school grades and now i will fail all my finals which are next week for INTENTIONALLY searching & then looking at various pictures that were very very haraam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Sister, make tawbah to Allah and do not do again. Be very firm in your resolve not to repeat it, and ask Allah's forgiveness.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

      • but i feel disgusting. i feel so filthy for willingly watching such pictures and some video clips as well.....

        Brother Wael, ever since I started these sins my life completely fell apart. I am not doing well in school and fight with my mom and dad and my brothers all the time, i am rude to them aswell and i desererve the punishment for being mean to them......i just completely lose my temper sometimes and just lose it. i blow up at every little things and it even drives ME crazy, let alone those around me.

        I am going to fail finals, I just know it. I am already stressed out about school, I know for a fact I won't do great at all and might even get an F or two.

        Also, out of anger for how things are going in my life and also out of anger for the sins i did last night with the filthy images, i have said bad bad things to ALLAH (swt). I have bad words that i say out loud sometimes, like the f word, d--k, c--t, etc........i say these when I feel ALLAH no longer wants to help me and that he hates me.

        I always feel horrible right after saying those things about Allah when I am angry at what He does to me. It is not right for me to do at all. I need help. I pray that in Ramadan, I will stop doing these sins of porn and masturbation and so rude to my family.

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