Islamic marriage advice and family advice

I liked him so much, but he rejected me. Now what?

Will I ever forget him?

Asalamualaykum,

Ten days ago, a potential marriage partner came to me. When I met the boy, I like him sooo much...I was satisfied with his everything. But he rejected me.

Now I am soo depressed. I feel like I will not get a husband like him, and am also worried about whether or not I will be able to forget him.

Please...I really need advice.....Jazakallah

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  1. Dear sister,
    No worries at all. He is not the only guy in the world. Allah Kareem is not limited in creating His creation always remember that.
    Have patience.
    “Only those who are patient shall receive their rewards in full, without Hisaab (without limit, calculation, and estimation).”(Quran, 39:10)
    Allah knows the best.

  2. Salam sister,
    Im so glad u posted this, i am in exact the same situation. Just carry on doing dua ALL the time. Allah is Al Kadeer (has the ability to do anything). He is Al Fattah, the opener. Carry on doing dua, he can bless you with anyone at anytime. Remember whatever happens, happens for the best. Allah does everything for the best, if the man is good for you, Allah can make him come back to you and if he is not then you will get someone better in sha Allah x

  3. Salam sister,
    I am in the exact situation as you, im so glad you posted this. Its a painful experience, but we need to know that whatever Allah does, he does it for our best. If he is good for you Allah will bring him back and if he is not then Allah will give you someone better in sha Allah. Remember Allah is Al Qadeer, he can do anything at anytime. He is Al Fatah, he opens doors that we think are impossible to open. Just keeeping making dua, duas never fo to waste.

  4. OP: Ten days ago, a potential marriage partner came to me. When I met the boy, I like him sooo much...I was satisfied with his everything. But he rejected me.

    How did he find you? Where did you meet him? Did he tell you he was looking for a marriage partner or an entertainment partner?

    • OP: How did he find you? Where did you meet him? Did he tell you he was looking for a marriage partner or an entertainment partner?

      He found me as I am. I met him where he met me and he said he was looking for a bit of both! 🙂 Mate, SVS, have you taken your Shahada?

  5. I will be honest, I'm very confused as to how you can grow so attached to a man you barely know. From what I understand from your message, you have only met him once. I understand that you might have really liked his credentials on paper and the way he looks, but unless you have known him for years or even months...I don't understand why you consider him such a big loss. It was a potential proposal, nothing more or less...no need to get so upset about it. You should always pray for Allah to remove people that aren't good for you and to bring people in to your life that are good for you. Because then when someone that turns up in your life doesn't stick around, you can sort of rest assured that they wouldn't have been any good for you.

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