In love with someone from a different firqa, what do I do?
Asalaam o alikum...if i do anymistake please ignore coz i dont know proper english langauge.
I love someone and met him on the net 5 years ago. We both want to get married but in here main issue is "Firqa". He belongs to ahl e tashee and I belong to ahl e hadith. My father is very strict about religion. He dont agree to marry his daughter in diferent firqa expect ahl e hadith. Even he is not agree in ahl e sunnat community. I dont want to hurt anyone and I dont understand what I do?
I make pray to Allah to get my love and only blv on Allah..He Will HELP ME.please pray for me. Allah knows my heart. I'm in big trouble. I have no option how to say anyone at home coz nobody listen to me just Allah is with me coz pray Allah helps you in your situation and gives you provision from where you do not expect.
i Request all Of You! please Pray for me To get me My Love:)
JAZAK'ALLAH
-afshan
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AsSalamu'aiali sister,
By ahl at Tashee, I suppose you mean Shia'. Correct me if I am wrong.
Allah Created us one, but we divided ourselves into sects. And Allah says in the Qur'aan which means that His Prophet Sallallahu 'Alaihi wasallam has nothing to do with thosw who break themselves into sects. Now that sects have been created and labelled, what we should do is compare the 'Aqeedah of the one you consider in marriage and your 'Aqeedah. In this case, it is recommended that you abstain from this because living with a 'Aqeedah that abuses the elite Sahabah such as Abu Bakr as Siddeeq, Umar bin Khattaab, Uthmaan bin Affan (Radiyallahu 'Anhum), and abuses the mothers of the believers 'Aaishah, Hafsah and others (Radiyallahu 'Anhunna), your 'Aqeedah will be at stake. Your aim is to Please Allah in this World, and you can do this in a much better way than this.
Why don't you mention to your father that you wish to get married and he finds you a Righteous man who loves Allah, His Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi wasallam, his Sahaabah Radiyallahu Anhum, the mothers of the believers Radiyallahu Anhunna, and all those who follow in their footsteps. This is
indeed better for you and insha Allah easier for you to keep yourself steadfast upon the Deen, until you meet Allah on The Final Day.
May Allah accept us and be Pleased with us all
Aameen
Wassalamu'alaikum
Muhammad Waseem
I'm sorry I meant Assalamu'alaiki
🙂
The main thing a girl should look upon for a husband, is his religion and faith. Have you check out his? Are you agree with his? Your father doesnt, why? is it because his believes are unacceptable by Allah? Whose the wrong doer/believer here, your father or him? You need to research, read up, we cant play with religion. Sory I didnt help a lot 😀
Assalamolaikum;
First of all JazakaALLAH for the great work you are doing. I
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