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Homosexuality issue may Allah forgive me

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Assalam laikum i was looking on the internet about how to leave homosexuality and i end up with this website.

i read a topic somebody shared about the homosexuality and i got the courage of writing and sharing my problem hoping i get some solution to my problem.

i had been involved (not too much) in homosexuality nec of some bad incidents in my childhood that i dont want to recall or discuss. i belong to a very islamic family allah ka shuker and i m against homosexuality bec i know its haram in islam and when some thing is haram or prohibited in islam it means its not natural. i m not too much involved in all these activities but i m attracted towards the same sex which is very embarrassing and shameful.

i do astaghfar all the time and pray allah swt to help me coming out of this dirt and i keep my self busy with family work and tableeghi jamat.

any way my problem is i m married to girl recently (because of family pressure) my problem is when ever i get physical with her i start with full energy but in between i lose my interest and unable to fulfill her desire. i dont know what to do and how to overcome this plz help me

saadi

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  1. I wish I knew what to tell you.
    I'm muslim but I'm not against gays or lesbian etc.
    I feel they are such kind people
    I support the lgtb with my full heart
    There are a lot of things that are Haram

    Not covering the hair
    Watching porn
    Eating Haram meat
    Drinking
    Premarital sex
    Not offering namaz

    Yet so many "muslims " do it
    And no one cares.

    Yet when two men want to marry
    Then it's wrong?

    Consult Daiyee Abdullah

    He is a American black muslim imam.
    And is very experienced in this matter
    He can help you
    Go to his Facebook and write him

    You are with your wife now
    Try your best to make her happy
    And in turn God will make you happy

    Good luck
    Salamalekum

  2. OP: i had been involved (not too much) in homosexuality bec of some bad incidents in my childhood that i don't want to recall. i m against homosexuality....l. i m not too much involved ..... but i m attracted towards the same sex...... i m married to girl recently (because of family pressure) my problem is when ever i get physical with her i start with full energy but in between i lose my interest and unable to fulfill her desire. i dont know what to do and how to overcome this plz help me.

    Children are curious about sex. Many play doctor patient games to look at / touch other kids. If 2 boys do some thing, it does make them homosexual.
    What do you mean you are attracted to same sex? One may think other man is handsome. Another person may desire sexual contact and have an erection. You have not mentioned any thing about sex with adult men. in my opinion from what you have written it does not look like your are a homosexual.

    You say you start with full energy with your wife and loose interest. Do you mean you get an erection but loose it? A pure homosexual is not likely to have an erection with a woman. Sex therapy may help you have normal sex.

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