I need a dua to get married to the boy whom I love
Salam to all,
I am 27 year old girl. I am in love with a guy 4 years ago.I wish to get married with the guy whom I love, with the consent of both our parents. My family agree for this marriage but now the problem is his side parents are not agreeing. We both are Muslim, we are from same country, same state only district is different. And his parents dislike that I am from another district. And he says that it's not possible to get married as his parents do not agree. I need your support by giving me the powerful dua I can say which I want to ask Allah to give me him as mine. I can’t think about a life without him. Please give me a dua in Arabic in which I can recite & kindly advise me how many times and how to do the same.
Please reply me back through ma email. Plz respond to me at the earliest.
I need this to be worked out i need to be happy after happening this. So please find me a dua. Plz..
Please reply at the earliest.
Thanks a lot .
niha
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Wow. Just for the same district? I would strongly advise that you pray Istikharah and ask Allah for guidance and help. Then, make a sound decision. Get your parents involved. Ask them for an opinion. Since they supported you in the start, they will most likely give honest advice. If the guy's parents don't agree, and the boy says he can't marry without approval, then don't marry. I've heard way too many stories about women who've had trouble with in-laws because they never liked the girl in the first place. It's bad enough if the opposition comes from distance relatives, but if it comes from the guy's parents, who are supposed to love and take you as their own, that's a toughie.
Besides, one of your rights is to live in a safe and happy home. A stable married life after you're married. I understand you like this guy, but think about it. Out of the thousands of Muslim men in your community, I'm sure you and your parents can find one that has it all....and has parents who will love you as their daughter.
Most of all, involve your Lord. I will remember to keep you in my prayers Insha Allah.
Assalamu alaikum sister, may Allah make easy your situation.
Ameen.
From a Muslim sister,
noor767
I really like your advice sis
A dua won't force your boyfriend's parents to change their minds. Dua does not force the will of others. I'm afraid they will do whatever they want to do. However, if your boyfriend is strong enough, he can try to persuade his parents to be on side. Otherwise, you are out of luck.
Dua can do anything bro/sis, cause though Dua'a Allah can test the parents and through that test Allah will make them feel that she is fit to be they daughter in-law and remember with Allah all things are possible and this Dua is what we ask from Allah and not from someone else, so I think this Dua " O My Allah, O My Rab, You know whom is best for me,grant me a good spouse whom will be the coolest of my eye and that to I will be the coolest of his eye, and if this brother whom I love is best for me then I trust you completely you will never deprive me of him and no one can come between me and him because YOU are the Almighty, Ameen.". Am so sorry please, am not saying you are wrong cause I understand it in the way you reply to her and you are right but you should try to encourage her sis.
Assalam alaikum,
Please excuse my ignorance, but I do not understand why people continually seek a specific du'a in such a way that they would be guaranteed that thing. We must realize that this life is not about getting what you want and sometimes, what you want, isn't the best for you.
Frankly speaking, this boy and his family do not want you to be a part of their family. The boy that you "love" doesn't want to stick up for you after 4 years - do you think he will have much of a backbone after marriage? Also, you are so deeply in love with him, but the love for him surpasses your best judgement. Dear Sister, please have some self-respect, and let the things that you have no control over go. If he says he can't marry you because he suddenly realized you are living in the wrong district after 4 years, perhaps you say, "Ok, I am moving on." Be strong. Perhaps that will send him a message that you can't be toyed with and it will allow you to stop feeling like undervalued.
Certainly, we can make du'a for the things that we want, but with the understanding that the du'a may
1. Be accepted immediately OR
2. Rejected, but compensated in another way OR
3. Delayed.
There are no guarantees- so please learn to think without him. This is a test. Gain perspective. Do not be a slave to your emotions - you think it is love, but it seems you are more in love with love itself.
May Allah ease your pain, Ameen.
Sister ,
I think you should drop this idea to marry this man who is not interested to convince his parents for the marriage .
After Four year of relationship he might have got bored with you and just want to escape by giving various reasons .
I have seen most of the cases where after having relationship for some years the men are not interested to marry the Girls . The reason might be they get bored with current girl and they get new option to get new girl through arranged marriage with some drama to act like a obedient son to their parents.
I think best and secure way is to follow the basic rule of Islam that is "NO boyfriend/girl friend relationship "
sis
u may love this boy but aint good for u atall after 4years he comes up with such plan oh no dear pliz move on with life n let go no dua to change dat fact
best wishes dear
Wallahi I am facing the same problem. My boy has tried all his best to convince his father but the father did not agreed
I was the same experience before 3 years, sister my advice to you is IshAllah if you strong in your Dua,You will marry this guy soon.However i will also remind you that do not forget to mentioned or add in your Dua not only marring to this man but also to be your marriage peaceful with your future husband and with his family
I also make Dua for you IshAllah you will see it soon you will marry this man.
Do not forget that if you Ask Allah he will give you whatever you want if you believe in and if its Hallae or Good to you.
It's better to pray for Allah to give you a good spouse with whom you can live in mutual love, respect, harmony, and striving together for success in the dunya and aakhirah - whoever that spouse may be. In other words, it's best not to pray for marriage with one particular person. I speak from experience. You might expend so much energy making dua' to be married to one particular person, and Allah might grant it to you, and then you might find that it is not what you expected or wanted. It's better to pray for marriage to the right person.
Wael
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Absolutely right. Plz make dua for me as well that may ALLAH get me married to the man i want to. Ameen
my probs no one is happy in my happiness 🙁
I'm still in love of a boy who is most caring but he's younger , n dont want to marry me up
I cant ive without him,also my parents are not agreed with him
I have no dua
so I think this Dua " O My Allah, O My Rab, You know whom is best for me,grant me a good spouse whom will be the coolest of my eye and that to I will be the coolest of his eye, and if this brother whom I love is best for me then I trust you completely you will never deprive me of him and no one can come between me and him because YOU are the Almighty, Ameen."