Mother in law feels I stole her son
I have never written here before read through a lot of posts and gained a lot of insight and knowledge from other´s people experiences.
I have been married since october last year and live with my in laws, my husband is the eldest and there are a few other kids after him, he is the only one married and she is a widow for the past 12 years therefore she basically brought her kids up alone.. most of their lives...
Lately we have been having many problems she keeps saying things like I stole her son and he belongs to her and only her and says nobody will take him away. _I don´t do things to aggraviate her she isn´t a stable person and is on deppression medication, but I don´t see how that justifies being so possesive over her son, she wanted us married she says I don´t behave like a daughter in law, I do my share to the best of my ability, I cook on weekends and clean when I have to, I work during the week and hardly spend time with my husband so when I get home I´m in our room relaxing as the food is already cooked and house is cleaned, all of which the maid takes care of.
She curses and says very very hurtful words which even thou we both made maaf i can´t seem to stop hearing her words ring in my head, she says she will kill the person that tries to take her son away from her, she will never accept the fact that we want to move out, one day Insha Allah. she has a customery way of thinking which is causing a lot of problems. she makes it seem like I pulled her son away from her
She cursed us and said if we leave her house our marriage won´t last six months, he was previously married and moved out, things didn´t work out and he came back home.
I don´t know what to feel or think or do.. i honestly try with her, I respect her don´t back chat and help when I can spend time with her when he isn´t around and even go places with her if she needs to get things done..
Please give me some answers I´m emotionally broken
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