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I want to marry him – will a wazifa help?

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Asalam O Alaikum,

I need your help urgently. I am really confused. My mom found about the guy i am in relationship with and yes we both want to marry each other in future..IN SHAA ALLAH. She told me to stay away from him. He is my mom's best friend's son but our families do not meet because of my dad as he does not  like his father n all..

When my mom came to know she was very angry and said that my dad will never agree and all..I am not sure if she herself agrees or not because she always did what my dad said as she is afraid of my dad..

I asked a molvi to tell me something to read (wazifa) so that at least my mom agrees ..I wanted to know do wazifas really work ? I mean I do believe that Allah will help us and answers our prayers but what actually are wazifas..I am really confused..if u people have any experiences with wazifas working please tell me..as I have a doubt in my heart..

please reply me soon as I am very tensed and depressed..

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  1. no such wazifa are workful its all shirk if anyone goes on that way..so Pray to Allah and leave the rest unto him..

  2. i asked a molvi and he said to recite "YA MUSABIBAL ASABAB" after isha prayers. so is this wrong ? I mean this is attributes of Allah.
    I ask you all to please pray for me.
    Thanks

  3. Dear Sister

    If it is not in your taqdeer, it wont happen. I dont mean to make u sad. But the sooner you realize that. The easier things will be. It may not seem like it right now, but your parents love you and want the best for u. U may not see it right now but later in life (if u r open minded enough to not hold onto the past) u may see just why they are so against it.

    But if this is what you really want to do then pray to Allah. Read 2 rakaats of salaatul haajat. If u google it im sure u will find the dua as well. Read the dua with conviction.

    You dont need a wazeefah to change ur parents hearts. You need to have a talk to Allah. And pray. That if this is whats good for you then Allah should make it easier. And if it isnt good for you That Allah should replace it with whaalt IS good.

  4. There is no wazifa that causes a person to change his mind or act in a certain way.

    We each have free will and your father will do as he pleases. It is possible that if you told him how you felt, he may come around.

  5. For the time being I think you should listen to your mother. Don't forget mother is your friend here so listen to her and move on with your life don't know how old are you but you better concentrate About your study job or whatever you in now.

  6. I felt in love...

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  7. wazifas are just reading the Attributes of Allah.so wazifas are nothing ? I am actually not clear with wazifa concept.If anyone could explain me in detail what is wazifa? is it allowed in Islam ? if not then how did it started and why ?

  8. Some wazifas are duas recited for a purpose. The most famous example is when a blind Sahabi asked the Prophet Muhammad Rasullul lah (Sal lal laho alaihey wa aalehi wa sallim) for a dua to get his eye sight back. Prophet Muhammad Rasullul lah (Sal lal laho alaihey wa aalehi wa sallim) told him to go to the mosque and do 2 rakat nafal salah and read a small dua. Few minutes later he came back as Allah had given him his eye sight back.

    More generally, it is the practice of reciting the 99 names of Allah (SWT).

    Even the Sahaba said dhikr.

  9. im in the same situation ive been with him for 4 years and 5 month he has been asking for my hand for 4 years my
    father and uncle dont agree there very stubborn and what really is hard is that my family blames my mom for him coming to ask for me so he doesnt talk to us its so complicated but i do see he is the best for me in ever way i am waiting patiently for allah

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