I think I am in love
I’m 17 years old and I’m friends with this boy who is also Muslim and is 1 year younger than me. We are just friends but I really like him. My mom has met him and his sister and she knows their mom. My mom doesn’t like them very much because she feels that they aren’t religious enough (even though his mom wears hijab). She does not know that I am friends with him or that I have feelings for him. I don’t know what to do because I really like him and I think he is slowly starting to like me too. His family loves me (I’m friends with his sisters) and his mom is very kind with me. I just wish my mom didn’t judge so quickly. They’re a good family and I wish she could see that. I don’t know how to get over him and it’s killing me because my mom doesn’t like them very much. Please help
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Assalamalekum Dear.
I strongly advice you to nip this at the bud.
You are too young to get involved with a boy specially when he is also very young.too young to get married isn't he?
The more you see/meet him, the more you will get attracted to him one thing would lead to another and in no time you will be commiting zina. Our religion say don't go even near zina. It all starts with innocent friendship with the opposite sex.avoid all kind of temptations. Don't be the cause of Fithnah for him too.
At this time in life concentrate on your studies and let him also study. His mum will not be happy know that you are taking interest in his son that way. You may continue being friends with his family and sisters. Wo knows what's future holds for you guys. Don't have any friendship behind your family or his family. Some people can be judgemental, but by the time you guys grow up and ready to settle down I'm sure things will be different.
Continue with your salaH and make doa for good spouse may it be this boy.Do isteqaraH so Allah guides you.do not let Shsitan's whisper ruin your life.
May Allah guide us all to the right path