My boyfriend was forced to marry someone else
Hi, I'm having a difficult situation, I met my ex boyfriend in Dominican Republic he is a Muslim and me too, we found each other and is difficult in DR were there are no middle eastern people at all, so we felt in love and decided to get marry, he went to Turkey to earn more money for us to build our home and suddenly his father got very sick and he had to take care of him and the time past we lasted 1 year talking by internet but then we broke up he said he still loved me but it was difficult for us to be together another year past and I found out that he got marry to someone else, I wanted a family with him and I wanted to build my life with him so I thought that he didn't love me anymore and I resign to Allah's wish and never contacted him again, until he contacted me saying that it wasn't his intention to get marry that he doesn't love that woman, I'm afraid old feeling will come around because he is trying to reach for me and I'm trying not to talk to him because he is marry I don't know what to do I still have feelings for him.
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please do not contact him, block his number and cut all contact. he had the choice to marry you but he didn't. he ended your relationship, and married someone else. continue to put your trust in allah, and let your heart heal and move on. he is a married man, let him focus on marriage.
Just ignor him sis. Hes a coward and a cheater. Dont listen to him or trust him again. He will only ruin ur life and break ur heart again nothing alse. No man can be forced in to a marrige only if he becomes a real man and stands for himself only a coward gave in to their perents wish and distory that girl's life.(whom they marry) U better of without him. U deserve more then him. U will get over him when time comes but plz never ever let him enter ur life. If u did so u will only rigrat it. Block him and dont give him anther chance to contact u.
Good luck
Wow first of all let me say I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. Secondly, for those who are saying move on and ignore him, it's so much easier said than done. Someone who claimed to love you and start a life with you then goes behind your back and marries someone else is the lowest of low wallahi. Please understand that. He was a total coward and couldn't even tell you the truth. I myself was in a similar situation, I was with this guy from the uk(I'm from canada) and we had plans to marry each other this summer with both of our families knowing. After being together a year, he decided to cut all ties and ignore me for no given reason. I was his first love and I loved this guy off for the sake of Allah wallah. I completely understand how you feel and where you are coming from. Till this day I don't know if my ex married someone else or left me for another women. It's been a month almost and I can't say it's gotten easier. We haven't spoken since because he won't answer my texts or emails. An apology or closure would be nice but there's nothing. Guys like this deserve the worst of the worst tbh, I'll never understand how some men can be so cruel and heartless. I hope Allah heals your heart my love. Stay strong
Listen my dear..There is a devil chained to every humanbeing at birth ..He knows you better then yourself...your habits desires etc....In this world it works 2 ways right path wrong path....Even people who take the right path mix with the other path =FAILURE IN EVERYTHING...Thats why we must follow Allah commandments 100% and follow the teachings of prophet Muhammad PBUH who is the best of guides..! The sins we commit we don't relze the damage it does on this earth even the animals get affected...But who cares it's just a little sin? Listen to yourself ...look at the world itself at the sametime your life will go fast and then unexpectedly you past away.....You will see know the unseen that Allah veiled us in this world...You will be asked 3 questions I the grave..Only Iman that comes from the heart can answer the question not lip service.So if you want to be successful beautiful soft in speech bright as the sun stress free debt free...etc...Solution obey Allah pray 5 times and master salah..Read quran daily dress moderate .do not show your body or face in away that us guys dream about it sinfully .we commit sin and u commit sin un knowingly...Keep away from all evil food music bad movies interest you know best....If all the muslims did this then people will just come into Islam because of the love n peace amongst us.....we would be the leaders of all fields and just rulers of a country....but 4 now we are struggling with the young generation that is not praying salah are clueless of there Deen. .who are involved in drugs sex parties etc....I would know Allah saved me for I am a revert who was a model and now I am married to a scholor...Good luk
BOYFRIEND IS HARAM .THE PUNISHMENT IN THE NEXT WORLD IS VERY SERIOUS! PLEASE REFER TO WHAT THE PROPHET OF ALLAH SAYS FOR THE ADULTROUS.SO REPENT AND LEARN UR DEEN AND BECOME SUCCESSFUL.
People on these sites who are not scholors .do not see the big picture......here it is.. when a believer on the face of this earth commits a sin. The environment gets affected.the animals get affected and these sins come in a form of a punishment from the heavens because of its affects.....Look at the problems today in the world ...war cancer diseases deaths etc....understand!
OP: year past and I found out that he got marry to someone else, I wanted a family with him and I wanted to build my life with him so............l he contacted me saying that it wasn't his intention to get marry that he doesn't love that woman, I'm afraid old feeling will come around because he is trying to reach for me and I'm trying not to talk to him because he is marry I don't know what to do I still have feelings for him.
I have a feeling he won't mind using you for sex. Most men in a situation like that will say that they don't love their wives and won't mind keeping friendship going secretly. He may offer you a secret second marriage. You have feelings for him, all he needs is call you few more times and you will...............