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I wish to convert and do nikah with a Vietnamese girl

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Asalam O Alaikum

im a 21 years old Pakistani guy and I've come to know a Vietnamese girl who's 10 years older than me we started talking and we would talk about my religion and how her morals right now are very similar to my Islam. We ended up getting very close and now she said she is wanting to convert to Islam and conform with my customs and marry me. I have the same feelings but when I confronted my parents they definitely said they would never accept her being 10 years older than me and have dated other men in her life. Is there any dua, namaz (prayer), invocations that can make my parents accepting of her. She and I are losing hope and depressed about our situation.


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  1. i would suggest dont go against your parents.
    at 21 i know how it feels but believe me there are better people you would meet in the futuere so dont rush

  2. Assalaamualaykum Brother Z80HD,

    I think you should perform the Salat Al-Istikhara, the prayer for guidance from Allah in the decision. You can find information on the Salat Al-Istikhara in the "Istikhara Questions and Answers" tab in the menu at the top of this page. After praying the necessary 2-rakat prayer and saying the dua, in which you ask Allah to lead you to the better of two alternatives, or at minimum, guide you to the right path, you will get a feeling about what is right for your situation. Go with that feeling.



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