Dowry issue
Asalamualakum
Okay my issue is that the dowry and everything about my marriage was set behind my back.
I still don't know how much the dowry for my wife is...I just feel this is unfair...
Does the dowry count if it's something I never knew and never agreed upon?
jazakallah for the replies and help.
muhammad711
Walaikum As Salam Wa Rahmatullahi wa Barkatuh
1 - If the dowry was set behind your back, then who set it ?
2 - Why are you so obssessed about it now post your marriage ? After all its set for your own wife.
3 - If its unfair, then what were you doing when the dowry was being set up ? Dint you knew it when the Mahr amount or so was said verbally by the Qazi ?
Whats on your mind exactly ?
I wasn't at the wedding...My mom pushed me into the marriage and she took care of everything without informing me